Should I flirt with a guy that has a gf? :(

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by maluhia, Aug 20, 2011.

  1. deleted

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    I dont think cunts should open up and be flirtatious whores. If they dont want a cock in it..
     
  2. RooRshack

    RooRshack On Sabbatical

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    Haaaa....

    Can't rep you again yet.
     
  3. ladiesfirst

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    I wouldn't go out of my way to flirt with someone who's already in a relationship. For one thing, it's probably a waste of time, but for another, it can cause real trouble for everyone involved. Just bide your time and see what happens. If they break up, you can swoop on in.
     
  4. delilah sunshyne

    delilah sunshyne Member

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    I guess it depends on what you want from him...

    When I was single I used to fool around with a guy who was with someone else. Did i like him? yeah, but not enough to trust him in a relationship. I mean... he was fooling around with me, why bring that sort of dude into my life? Once he was married, I backed off.

    Now I'm not single and I flirt harmlessly with people. It never means anything, but makes the work day go by quicker and everyone feels good about themselves. A few compliments here and there, a few suggestive jokes and comments... but nothing incredibly inappropriate. No touching, no alone time, nothing that could lead to temptation and trouble. It's a fine line to walk, but with good judgement and control it works.

    If you like him and want to be with him, that's a whole other conversation. Tell him how you feel and then don't push it. If he likes you, he'll find a way to be with you, the way you deserve someone to be with you, instead of behind another girl's back.
     
  5. WOLF ANGEL

    WOLF ANGEL Senior Member - A Fool on the Hill Lifetime Supporter

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    To 'flirt' is an action of expectancy - to some it is fun, to others may seem to be much more. There are always 3 poeple to consider I feel
    Yourself: - and your motives
    The other: - and their perception
    A.N.Other: - and their observation of such interaction
    Consideration, and a degree of deliberation may produce a viewpoint that prevents a negative reaction - methinks
     
  6. maluhia

    maluhia Member

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    Okay, here is how things turned out....

    He is still with that girl, but some people tell me it is not going to last, but I never see him anymore so I just gave up hahaha, it wasn't gonna work because I never talk to him since he is now studying a lot (sucks!). AND also I realised how I just wanted some fun (hehehehehe if you know what i mean), so I am going to wait for a party in which he is there because it make things a lot easier when you are all happy and stuff.
    And, yeahh... you were right guys, thank you! Or else I would screw all over. :afro:
     
  7. RooRshack

    RooRshack On Sabbatical

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    Oh, so you're saying you're a rather nasty person.

    Carry on, then.
     
  8. maluhia

    maluhia Member

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    No :( Its just the right thing to do cause he doesnt want to have any relationships; he is going to college... so neither of us can get hurt, He doesnt lose a friend and I dont get my expectations high.
    And that part that you put on bold means that in a party everyone just wants to have fun, it didnt mean that I am going to make him drunk or anything in that kind.

    Sometimes thats the best answer, but yeah, you can jugde me I dont care :)
     
  9. dave08

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    Do not flirt with him, flirt after hw broke up.
     

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