Should I buy my girlfriend a vibrator?

My girlfriend and I have been together for 2 years now and have a great sex life. She know that I love when she masterbates while I watch/caress her. I was thinking of surprising her this Valentines Day with vibrator. We haven't really talked about it but she is constantly wanting me to try new things and be vocal about what I want in the bedroom. Am I making a mistake by introducing sex toys to our relationship? If not, how should I introduce such a thing? Any tips? Please post any thought. Thanks

 

Just dont buy her a rabbit.... One you can use on you both, and play with each othrr is what you want..
Or why not get a catalogue and a bottle of wine, order together on line, and talk about your pending fun!

 

i agree sit together and choose together and find something that you both would like to try, its much more fun and you might find a few other things you would like to try

 

Yes, but buy her something more traditional for Valentines Day also, so she doesn't get the idea that sex is the "only" reason you like her.

 

:iagree:

Wise words - from a Wise Woman x

 

nope
buy her flowers

 

So you seriously think she doesnt already own one?

 

Quite possibly she does but its a personal thing because its not part of their sexual setting, or she's never felt she needed one.
If one came up in the relationship like is asked and suggested it might become an open subject for both of them, and a new wave of fun for both. Some guys like a little buzz too just so ya'all know.

 

Traditional valentines presents are soooooo boring. Think outside the box.
Woops.
Maybe just think about her box instead. Nom nom nom.

 

Yes to getting one.

But spoil her by using it on her first then giving her a good round of sex. The first time can be really intense, even solo, so you want to be responsible for that.

But since it has been 2 years, leading in with a nice dinner would be good to, especially if you can cook.

 

Every time that I've bought something overtly sexual for my girlfriend for Valentines day, it hasn't gone as well as I hoped.

A vibrator is a fine gift, for her birthday, for Super Bowl Sunday, for a solstice present, but not a Valentines Day present.

 

Lol, a fine gift for the Superbowl? As in: Here's a vibrator, now leave me alone I want to watch the game with my mates

 

I say get two and plug her up real good

 

I did it once, go basic. Smaller and simpler for the first one.

 

No - at least not as a surprise present.
A vibrator is an incerdibly personal thing: you stick it inside you!!!

She might think it's great, she also might think she's lacking something.

By all means buy sex toys, but for the first one - do it together.

For valentines day, stick to chocolates and a picnic.