Should i be worried..

Ok then DONT put the grandparent shit in here. What you see is what you see. What I see is taking responsibility if i was pregnant, No I wasnt worried about being pregnant, I was kinda actually HAPPY yes happy. I was worried about THE Foood intake.

Ok do you know healthy foods to eat? No? then get out of here

 

This really doesn't matter anymore, she isn't preggo.

We know that there are two sides to each coin, there are bad mothers and good mothers at whatever age.

So now, lets move on shall we?

 

edit: i didn't realize the original quote about young mothers was from sarahrei.......

hence why I went back and edited my post...


anywho, heres some advice stacy: you're not ready to be a mom- be ridiculously careful in your future sexual adventures....you should've already learned your lesson.

 

I agree with this

 

Alright. I give up. people are going to repeat themselves. You guys are like kids to me. Saying what you say about people you dont know. Just because of one mistake I did you gotta judge me for it. and not once have you 'mothers' asked me what I had in mind about doing if i was

pathetic

 

you put the emphasis on the wrong part...being careful is what matters

we can say whatever we want about anything anyone posts here- and opinions that don't agree with your own is a risk YOU take when you make a thread like this...
I'm not judging your mistake, we all make them Stacy- what's important is not making the same mistake twice because when you do its no longer a mistake -it's stupidity.

just for the record talking to you is like talking to a very worn blow up doll that's been passed around a hungry military base....

 

:rofl:

That just made this thread worthy.

 

Agreed:smilielol5:

 

Just so everyone knows, apple juice coming out of the nose really hurts. Snocbor, your totally to blame.

 

Don't let these people bother you, I can't say if you'd be a good parent or not and neither can they.

I don't really think age really matters, I mean yes, the majority of 18 year olds aren't ready for kids, but at the same time, there are many 30+ people who aren't either.

My friend "S", is 22 and has a 5 year old son, he(yes, he) is a very good father. He lost his girlfriend during child birth, and won custody from the grandparents.
He went to college, now works and also spends most of his time taking care of his son, who is a smart, well adjusted boy. He was 17 when he had to take care of a boy by himself, while mourning the loss of his girlfriend.

My dads friend "J", is 46, has something like 11 kids, he drinks every day and continues to drive after, EVEN with the kids in the car.
He also lost two in the womb in a car accident, which involved booze. He SHOULD know better, but no. Also, his kids drink(except the ones under 13) and always fight... He also told his wife "K", not long after she had a baby, to get back to her job.

I am 20, had my daughter at 19, Brad was 18. We weren't in a "serious" relationship and I was even afraid to tell him. I wasn't ready for a kid, no, but I got ready anyway.
Not that everyone can do this, but we now live with my brother, pay rent, both work and take care of Amber.
We also still have a social life, go out on the weekend, and we bring her if we can(usually only don't if there's not a sufficient place for her to stay, or if there's going to be A Lot of drinking), keep her away from the booze and don't start drinking until she's gone to bed for the night.

 

Exactly. when i first got pregnant a year ago, I was nervous and wastn ready but I prepared myself, I thought, tthis is what life handed to me, make it thhe best it can be. I agree not all teens or young people think that way but then again at any age, you're right, no one can be a mother or father in the righteous way but they say its good to have them young b/t 21-30 because you have a lot more patience and in a healthy way.

i keep saying this is not the 50s anymore where people think the 'right' way is having a family or marriage first before babies. Stuff happens like this despite age. but i'll take your advice and ignore the negavity