Should I Be Upset?

I'm friends with this girl have been for about a year been trying to figure out how to get her to go out with me well today I actually asked her out and her response was "I thought you were gay?" Should I be upset I mean I'm a straight male what vibe could I possibly be giving off that says gay?

 

And you didn't ask her what made her think that when she said it?

 

I did she just kinna shrugged and I figured it was best to just kinna distance myself from that

 

Sounds like she might have been just looking for an excuse, or to diffuse the awkwardness of the situation.

 

No, you don't have to be upset at all. Just embrace your homosexuality and get on with your life.

 

If she's very conservative, I recommend "I'm not sure, could you help me figure it out?" Christian chicks are very quick to put out to save a soul, so she gets to walk away feeling good too.

 

thanks for the advice and I'm sorry I suppose I didn't make it clear enough that I'm NOT gay by stating in my original post that I'm a straight male so I guess I'll reiderate I AM NOT GAY, I AM A STRAIGHT MALE clear enough?

 

Sounds like you're upset...

 

step one would have been asking her out 364 days and 23 hours ago.

 

your plan - Me: Hey whats your name
Her: Tessa
Me: Cool wanna go out,
ya somehow I doubt that would go over very well lol

 

"A fool and his pussy are soon parted."

The point is to play off your friends comfort zone, and tell her your curious. It's a chance to pull yourself out of platonic street by teasing her. I had a lisp in high school. It's not a dealbraker, unless your weird about it.

 

waiting a year was certainly effective.

 

O truely now I'm the gay best friend what could be better

 

unless its fun for you to be upset, then no.