Should He Marry a Woman with Tattoos

Personally, tattoos on a woman have always been a deal breaker for me - but it's very common to see women with tats these days.

Younger guys, who tend to be pretty hungry for female attention, seem to be prepared to accept this. However, mature men - like me - are a little more in control of what they can tolerate in a mate.

Here's a short Coach Greg clip about a guy who asks "should I marry".

 

Ewww.


Excuse me, I need to schedule an appointment to get a tattoo now.

 

It's important to recognize that personal preferences and deal breakers can vary from person to person. While tattoos may be a deal breaker for some, it may not be for others. It's also important to note that people can change and evolve over time, and what may have been a deal breaker in the past may not be as important in the future. Ultimately, the decision to marry someone should be based on compatibility, shared values, and mutual respect, rather than a specific physical characteristic such as tattoos.

 

Agreed, I couldn’t have said it better myself. My wife is heavily inked, and love her unconditionally.

 

Sounds good.

I do wonder, however, when I see someone tatted up, what that says (to me) about that person's decision-making. Especially with a woman, who, so much more than men, should be aware that beauty is pretty darn important to their prospects and to their general welfare.

Women are beautiful. Skin that is smooth, pliant, soft perfection. The ruination of that perfection by the injection of ink into the skin speaks (to me) of short-term impulsiveness - of a moodiness that is not indicative of a well-adjusted state of being. A red flag; a danger sign.

I've had people tell me that I'm out to lunch feeling these intuitions, that tattoos are merely "adornments to a woman's body". I say jewelry are adornments - they can be removed and replaced at will.

I see permanently injected ink to be a blemish and a disfiguration - a deliberate disfiguration at that - and, as said before, the ruination of perfection. And an indicator, again as said before, of something not quite right in her decision-making.

But it's not something I feel should be ended or anything like that. People have to be free to do whatever they want to their own bodies.

I just would not consider forming a serious relationship (like marriage) with such a person. I'd be warned away.

 

We're all here for such a short time-----let's live our lives as we wish--short of doing harm to others. Personal decisions are just that--personal to each of us. When I was a youngin', I never saw any women--girls with tattoos. Times change. Men have always gotten tats--why shouldn't women. I dig seeing women with ém.

 

It is a personal preference. My fwb has two very small tattoos. One beneath one of her massive 36dd’s and one beneath her bikini line. Another fb who i do not see often as she loves out of state has a tramp stamp. They are fine with
me as well as others who are not festooned with them. Again it is very personal. I did fuck a hot chick some time ago who had an arrow pointing to her vagina and the word welcome lol. I have fucked quite a few who had a lot of tattoos but I don’t find that sexy after one fuck.

 

Nice to see we can agree on that.

 

I'm just curious if anyone else actually watched the video that was posted and what their thoughts were about that man comparing women with tattoos to poisonous dart frogs and black widow spiders? Let alone all the other things he said.

 

Welcome to HF!! ;-)

 

Yep, my wife also has a nice tramp stamp. Not to big, but just perfect to reverse image search, for fun!

 

One of my daughters has several tattoos that are very visible. For each one she consulted with me and other family members including her husband the design, meaning, and location of each one. I think anyone who wants to ink their body and takes the time to think and plan the display shows discipline. But just having a tat, especially silly ones that have no meaning, because it seemed cool at the time shows disregard for themselves and their body. Usually it is an error in judgement due to lack of maturity and life experience. Using a tat as a reason to avoid marriage to someone is shallow in regard to their overall personality.

 

Both our daughters have small discreet tattoos', so they are safe from the OP, who only sees things skin deep.

 

What? Did you think I was gonna kill any chick I see with a tattoo?

Sheesh.

 

I never really had a problem with women wearing tattoos. I think the only thing that would keep me from marrying a woman with tattoos is if the tattoos have hateful, extremist, or Satanic meanings. Those are deal-breakers for me.

 

I think that's the way most men are.

For me, though, any tattoo is a deal breaker.

That's not to say I wouldn't do consensual sex with a tattooed chick - but a committed relationship or marriage - not a chance.

 

You know, I have been trying not to comment on your posts but you don't make it easy, lol.

So if a woman isn't good enough for you to have a relationship with why would you fuck her? And it's have sex, not do sex.

 

I like fucking. I just hate tattoos.

 

Then don't fuck a woman with tattoos either.

 

Good suggestion!! ;-)