She said the reason was because my cock was too long and that it could injure her. I said that I wouldn't push it in all the way and she still wouldn't let me! Is there truth to this? Does the ankle make a woman more likely to get injured the penis is long?
Yes. Duh. Many men think the cervix is a target. And that hurts. What is good is the fornices before and after it. MOD NOTE: title edited because sex worker or not doesn’t matter. Also moving to genitalia. This isn’t a kink.
She said "no" and gave you a reason. I don't get why you're asking anyone here about what she feels during sex. She expects that it will feel unpleasant, and told you she isn't willing to try it with you. That should be the end of that story - lack of mutual consent - doesn't happen. Yes, the angle does make a difference in sensation, and, no, injury is unlikely unless she's recovering from recent surgery or otherwise is already injured. Most women like that particular position, but she doesn't, so let it go. If it was that important to you, you could let her go: end the relationship. You have to answer the question 'how important is it to you?' Everyone has hard limits, and for adventurous sexplorers hers isn't one of them, but we each decide where to draw the line. She's drawn hers. One thing that may help change her mind is a sexual device called "the bumper." You can google it and buy it from your merchant of choice. It's a spongy 2-piece barrier that you wear to reduce the depth of your penetration. It isn't expensive. Ask her if it would make a difference and look at the product information together online. Just as a man with a small penis can wear a penis extender sleeve to give his partner more satisfying sensation and stimulation during vaginal penetrative intercourse, a man with a long penis can wear a bumper to give his partner a more satisfying experience. Most women don't like to have their cervixes banged during thrusting. Some do, but most do not. My guess is that she's extra sensitive around her cervix, and you've been banging it in ways that are unpleasant for her in the positions you've already used. A doggy-style position may very well make that worse for her. Your promises of being careful and gentle probably aren't being accepted because you haven't been careful or gentle with any of your thrusting in other positions.
I find doggy hurts a bit especially when hes near orgasm and starts jack hammering, he hits my cervix and it's not a nice feeling. Don't push the subject but maybe give her the option to be in control, you stay still and she moves back and forth.
I agree with the others . If it hurts her then just let it go and just accept that its outside your boundaries. . You have only got another 244 positions to try !
We are a senior couple and love to do doggy. That said, We do have to use some control. It’s not always about going deep. I have nothing to brag about in length. I’m only 6 3/4 inches but all about position and allowing my wife to adjust her pelvis. We both know that the opening of the vigina has more erogenous feeling, so I stroke her swallow until she pushes back at me. That my signal that she is ready for me to go balls deep. If she cums before me then I can pound her into jelly. It just takes practice.
