I'm bisexual and a virgin. 21. Female. I have been wanting to have sex with a girl for a while as having sex with a girl to me isn't as big a deal as having sex with a male (for obvious reasons...pregnancies etc) and i am way more attracted to the female body than the male body. i can't see myself having sex with a guy, tbh. Penis' just don't look right to me. Vagina's look amazing though. I met this girl on a dating site. (Don't worry, I already know she is a real person.) She lives in a different city than me. We've been talking on and off for about a year and a half. One night, we were sexting kinda...sorta. Anyways, she ended up sending me "pics". And she told me she is coming into town to see her friend. and she wants to meet me. Basically she told me she wants to have sex. 1) I have never made out with someone before except for the first time last year with this guy who was a total douche. But it was my first time and it was a horrible expirience. He told me I was horrible basically, and i know I was because i felt teeth. Um So I am really nervous about that... 2) I have never had sex with another girl, although i have really been wanting to. i don't imagine it being hard or anything and i told her if we did anything i see me being more "dominant" anyway, meaning im doing all the work. But i am nervous about that too. What if I suck? Aaah. Help mee. What should I do? I really want to go see her, and I don't mind having sex. My friends say i should just go with the flow because everyone has a first time obviously and learns from it. She doesn't know that I am a virgin or anything (and i rather not say). i feel like she is expecting a great time... HELP.
Does it have to a rush job? What if you like her after sex? Maybe it would help to see if you enjoy her company in real life first in case she is hard to ditch afterward. Unless it doesn't matter to you. But some females can be dangerously controlling and jealous types. I'm not even out as "bi" since I am mostly asexual, and have done nothing purposely to show attention to anyone, but I have still attracted those types.
You are on a sex forum - in the lesbian section - wondering if you should have sex? If you want to - do it! Sex with women is really easy, because we're far nicer!
