When I was married my wife said she never masturbates. We had several toys for fun. I bought the Sean Michaels realistic dido without telling her. When I brought it out she got really mad and said that thing is way too big and she won't even try it. It was sheleved and never brought out while we played. Fast forward a year or so later. My wife worked late and got home really late. I was usually always sleeping when she got home. One night I laid the huge dildo on the coffee table in the living room and wrote her a note saying she should try it out. I stayed up and faked sleeping that night. When she saw it and read the note she looked pissed. I quickly jumped back in bed and pretended to be sleeping. She looked around and went back in the other room and made a sback as usual and turned on the tv in the living room to unwind after work like she normally does. I thought for sure it wasn't going to happen based on how upset she looked. She was just watching TV so I laid back down and tried to sleep since I had to get up early for work as usual. An hour or so later I woke up and she still wasn't in bed. I started walking out to the living room. The lights were out and a late night infomercial was on the TV. However when I saw my wife I was totally and utterly speechless. She was naked on the couch. She was thrusting the Sean Michaels dildo hard as hell all the way in and out and trembling. She never saw me and was so into what she was doing that she was not paying attention to anythiny anyway. She started trembling so hard it looked borderline like convulsions. She started spraying cum or pussy juice all over and still not stopping. My wife never squirted before and told me she isn't a squirter. She slowed down after a huge orgasm. The dildo was still in her but she lay there panting. I thought she was done and I was about to quietly go back to bed. When all of a sudden she started thrusting it in all the way again. She crawled off the couch and suction cupped it to the coffee table. She proceeded to get on top and ride it and cum all over again. I thought she was done again but no, she kept going. I had cum so hard watching her. I had to get up early for a meeting the next morning so I finally went to bed even though she was still going at it fiercely. She never knew I saw her. The next day she acted like she was so mad at me for leaving that out and said she already told me she has no interest in that or even trying it. She went on to say she never masturbates and especially so late at night after working all night at work. She said woman don't think about sex 24/7 like men and jackoff all the time like men. I acted like I was sorry and just wanted to see if she might change her mind. She said no and big toys don't turn her on at all and she is satisfied with iur sex alone. I never told her I watched her and saw her fuckkng herself silly with that huge dong while slowly use 2 fingers in her ass. Another major surprise. She literally looked like she was having convulsions with it and not wanting to stop. It always sucked that she never told me and acted prim n proper. She never squirted when we had sex and she was spraying all over the living room that night. It always made me wonder what she does when she has the house to herself. I found it so damn hot that I can cum over and over again still to this day just thinking about it and remembering her facial expressions and body reactions. It always made me wonder how often she actually did masturbate, either with that dildo or without.... Oh well, I will always have that memory.
Sounds to me that she is embarrassed about the fact she enjoys it. Maybe if she gives in to you she worries what future ideas may develop. You can always install some hidden cameras in the house and watch her sexual habits.
I guess you never noticed that he started off his story with the phrase 'When I was married.' Sounded to me like he is divorced. Can the OP please confirm?