She let me hold her while sleeping... Now I cant stop thinking about her!

Ok... this is a very long story but please bear with me. I could use some advice!

It all started after being hired at my new job. The manager that hired me is young (shes 21) and very cute. Well, on my 2nd day She wouldnt stop talking to me. She kept asking me about myself, music I liked, hobbies, etc. and whenever I would mention something we had in common, her face would light up and shed be unusually excited. It honestly got to a point of non stop talking that was greatly distracting me and I think the girl trying to train me was slightly annoyed lol Shed cut her off when shed try to explain something work related just to mention something about herself to me or ask me something or tell a joke. She asked if Id pick up a shift and when I said yes she says "God Im so glad we found you youre just so awesome and perfect"

We hung out one night and got really wasted.
I asked her If I could stay the night because I felt I was too drunk to drive. We both got into her bed and me, being drunk, asked if I could snuggle to which she said yea thats fine. I got close to her, put my arm around her waist and started spooning her. We were both drifting into sleep talking about the songs playing when I started to nuzzle her neck and back also smelling her a few times... She felt so amazing and smelled so good I couldnt help it. It was honestly the most amazing sleep I had in a very long time.

The next day we both woke up still glued to each other in the same position. I got up and we both acted as though nothing happened. I couldnt even look at her when I was saying goodbye I could feel myself blushing.

When I saw her at work again we would catch eye contact but look away red in face. When we were alone for the 1st few hours, we would stand close to each other whenever we were talking and we'd keep eye contact. There was one point where she was speaking to a co worker and mentioned she had trouble with sleeping in general and then turned to me saying "Even on that night you stayed over I kept waking up all night. I didnt get any sleep" she turned really red as she said this and I could feel myself turning extremely red so I quickly walked away to avoid akwardness with the other co worker (prob looking at us like wtf was that). The dude that we met that night was coming to "surprise" her at work which I naturally felt awkward about and I think she knew. She even mentioned under her breath that "this is gonna be so awkward". But why? She then outta nowhere said she wasnt feeling well so she was going to tell him not to show and left work early...

I havent tried texting her or anything since yesterday. Im not sure how she feels about everything and I really dont want to bring it up Did she want me to do something more that night we slept together? Or is she regretting it? Was she actually very uncomfortable about it all and just didnt know how to push me off or tell me?

 

I feel like...there's chemistry there...

And I also feel like...you should ask her out....



From what your story says, you both blushed right? if she was straight or something, I don't think she'd be shy about it. But....from the way you told it, it seems there might be something 8D

 

I think she let your coworkers know that you stayed the night at her house so that she could lay claim on you. It doesn't really matter that she said the sleep wasn't great (she could have a pre-existing sleep issue), but the fact that she let others know there is a little history or something brewing with you guys says 'stay away he's mine', imho. It's something I would do.

I think you guys sound sweet, maybe you should ask her out.

 

I agree that she might obviously have a thing for you but you haven't specified her sexual preference. She could be a closet lesbian or bisexual and is afraid of coming out. Or just bi-curious. To me it seems like she may be confused and is questioning her own sexuality most likely. I would definitely try talking to her about without forcing it upon her. I'm sure she's thinking about it. Good luck! and keep us updated.