She has never used Lube or a Plug for Anal

So I'm going to get to try anal for the first time (male giving to female) and when I asked this girl about her anal history she told me she has done it with a couple of different partners several times but has never actually used lube or a plug to help loosen up first and they just go in raw. I gasped because I've done a ton of reading up on anal so that I'd be educated about it if I ever got to try. She told me shes never been able to do it except in the spooning position and now it all made sense.

With all that in mind I really want to give this girl an actual good anal experience and even try doggy or something. I just had a few questions.

1. What is a good recommend plug with a bigger base
2. How long is a good time to leave it in before penetration
3. Good lube for condom anal

 

Any set if graduated sizes fir "anal training" will do nicely. They make the pretty kind made of silicone with a jewel in the end. Cute.

I have a vibrating plug that also helps to relax and titalate...

They don't have to be in long. Start with the small and wear until it's hardly noticeable. Then move to the next size up. This may be 5 minutes or 2 hours. Just depends on her tushy. It may take a few nights or more to get it ready (start with the small and size up every session). Just have fun with it. Once her tushy is "trained" a quick 5 minute stretch through the sizes should do as king as she is relaxed. It seems counterintuituve, but penetration is smoother and easier if she bears down (like she's pooping) ever so slightly when you start putting a bit of pressure on her anus. The muscle action opens it up a bit better.

If you are going in bare (please only if silure you are disease/infection free) or if using non latex condoms then coconut oil is your best bet. Use it liberally. You can't have too much when you are first starting out in your anal adventure. Adult shops sell a turkey baster-esk lube inserted. I recommend it highly for the beginner. Make sure you don't pump a bunch of air in but load that ass up with coconut oil! 2 loads if she can take it.

If she is empty and well cleaned in advance, AND you use coconut oil instead of nasty silicone guck, she should have little to no need to rush to the bathroom afterwards. No matter has clean there is always the chance of some mess so have a couole clean towels on hand and some unscented baby wipes are awesome too.

Relax and have fun. The learning or training process can be scary but it doesn't have to be. Don't panic and it can be foreplay until you can actually penetrate comfortably.

Let me know if you have any questions!