She fills the void with her strapon

Will your wife help you to be better at being Bi"
It would be nice if you get to have sex at least once a week but you can't always connect with your bi buddy. To fill the void in between, my wife will get out the strapon and help me to take the edge off. She doesn't do the femdom wife routine much anymore. Now its more like "how much of cock slut am I " She says I should perfect my technique. Sometimes I feel stupid, sucking on a big dildo or fucking it like a real cock, but if she wants to help, Im always willing to practice and learn.Fake or not, it's certainly a wild orgasm. Do you get it as much as you would like or do you get to practice at home?

 

All I've done is "practice". Like you, I feel a little stupid sometimes. We've played at sharing sucking, me sucking, spit roast for her, her being DP 'ed, and me being fucked. We have discussed me being with men, or possibly threesomes. Maybe someday.

I'm counting myself lucky to have what I have. If more happens, even better.

We know big and gay men, but I'm not out to them. Some of them are heavy into kink, which is not my thing. I also still have issues accepting all this. Maybe someday.

 

I do have a regular bi partner, but my wife is always anxious with wanting to reverse rolls. She enjoys walking around with that big cock swinging between her legs. A couple months ago she came downstairs from just taking a shower with hers on and sat down on the love seat with me watching TV. She sat there stroking it and moaning, I knew what she wanted. After about 20 minutes she says, "You going to suck me or what Babe?" There I go on my knees and before long I was riding her as she stroked my hard-on to spew all over her belly and tits.

 

My wife loves to use her strapon with me. We are at that age where she has less a drive for sex, but swears she gets off fucking me with her strapon and watching me have sex with other men.

I am the bottom almost all the time now. The guys we hook up with are told from the start that I am the bottom. Honestly, I dont have the urge to fuck anymore, I just want to be fucked. I have huge orgasms from getting fucked. They are far more powerful than an orgasm from my dick.

 

My wife could care less if she had sex for herself anymore. She is pleased that I am the one getting poked and dealing with all of the cum, which she is more then thrilled to oblige me. I'm pleased because I don't have to do anything but enjoy fantastic orgasms. Sometimes she will make me work for it. I surprise myself at what I will do for her. Hooking up with my old buddy has become far and few between later. She made me this way.

 

Topper mentioned how he is "pleased because I don't have to do anything but enjoy fantastic orgasms".

I actually thought of that a few days ago while our guy was pounding me from behind. Might sound lazy, but it's very nice to just enjoy sex and never have to do the work to get a killer orgasm.

My wife isn't interested in getting it. She does enjoy pegging me, and watching our guy get me, but her sex drive has obviously went away the last couple years. We still love each other, and would never split up. I'm very happy she enjoys seeing me with other men....and her strapon talents are very good!!

 

I think it could be good to be on the recieving end.

She is reluctant to initiate anal play but I would happily relax and let her do me first. It's just sex. We as men are generally the ones to initiate etc. We are generally the ones pounding our wives.

It would be a nice turn around for her to fuck me while I relax and take it. Of course I would return the favour, or perhaps that's what she should be doing. Returning the favour.

I'm open to the idea of letting a male fuck me me if I could do NSA and just try it and other things for the experience.

 

We just had another practice session last night. It seems that we were both in the right mood for it. She was in a more dominating mood and I was in a great mood for receiving. It was a total role reversal. I had to go after her big strapon cock if I wanted it, which I did. Keeling at her feet with her cock dangling in front of me, I gave it a few licks and sucks to get it slippery, then I took it all the way down my throat,to the base. When she sees me deep throat it, it still amazes her. When she holds the back of my head and fucks my throat, I know she is getting into it. That big slippery dildo went from my throat and right into my asshole. We were both in a bit of a frenzy. With her cock buried in my ass and rubbing my prostate, I built up to a giant body rush and blasted right onto my face. She scooped my cum into my mouth with her fingers and I hungrily licked and sucked them clean. After we finished, she told me that she forgot how much she enjoyed turning me into a cock and cum slut. I certainly hope she stays in the mood for a while.

 

By not strapping one on and owning me, my wife has created a larger void I need to fill now. She wonders why I'm bi and looking for a guy when Ive begged her to fuck me and she wont?

 

Did she ever do you with a strapon? That sucks really. I don't know how I would react to that. Probably shouldn't give you ideas....it's up to you how to react.

 

she never tried wearing one no matter how much I begged joked cajoled, had serious talks-pegging denied.

 

If this bisexual lifestyle is really what you want, you need to find a woman that agrees with it. Before I got married, I told my wife I was bi, and wanted to play. The way I see it, if she doesn't like the idea, I would never be happy. I got lucky though, she loves the bi lifestyle.

 

At my age it's no longer about "lifestyle" so much as going for broke. Not getting any younger, and tired of my "bi-me" sitting on the shelf. Her not wanting to fuck me with a strap on, and after decades of begging, id sexually speaking, pushing me out the door to look for what I need. It will never be for lack of trying, honesty, discussing, begging....I tried.

 

Don't ask anymore, show her. Let her find a couple of toys and some lube. Just tell her that you need some sort of satisfaction . Unless she has a better idea, like my wife did. Maybe she will fuck your ass, just to keep you from straying.
Then it was to let her/our gay friend get involved.

 

My "showing her" will be finding a bi friend I dont have to beg....

 

Most recent discussion, I asked what I'm supposed to do since she refuses to peg me? She recommended I buy a dildo for myself. IOW, take care of it myself. I feel very dismissed by this. Like she couldn't give 2 shits. I told her I still want to hang out w/ some bi guys and need some sex with a man from time to time, just being honest. Now, the "go get yourself a dildo" comment, is pushing me harder to shop for a boyfriend/fuckbuddy as well. offered to move out/split/divorce but she wont entertain that thought, but would just rather dwell on my 'naughtiness" and how it makes her feel.....whatever...yolo.

 

......reading these comments re-enforces my belief that when a bi male is married with family, it, the majority of the time, is FAR removed from a "walk in the park".

So much self-denial, guilt, remorse, frustration......it CANNOT be easy, not by a long shot.......

"Live long and prosper"

 

Hot. My wife and I have talked about a strap on so I could feel like a hot little bitch, but we haven't done it.

 

Sounds hot, I think the ass play or pegging could be hot, just for fun and keeping things interesting.

If you want to be the "The Little Hot Bitch" would you let a few girls with different toys take turns on you?