She doesn't masturbate, should I date her?

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by release, May 22, 2006.

  1. whereami

    whereami Member

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    I'd have to say I agree with that. My current g/f does not masturbate at all. Says she just doesn't like it. Which kind of bothers me because one of those things that REALLY turns me on is when a girl is getting down with her bad self while I watch right before actually fucking. Every other girl I've been with has never had a problem with that & has pretty much always been a precursor to sex. More or less part of foreplay. But of course,it's not that big of a deal to where it affects our love life since my g/f has never been one to turn down sex.

    But she has a vibrator that when I asked to use it on her,she was really apprehensive about it & said she didn't like the way it felt. I'm thinking WTF? What female doesn't like a vibrator? But anyway,I just think maybe eventually she'll come around.
     
  2. RetroGroove_Grrl

    RetroGroove_Grrl I'm a big girl now

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    well whats the point of dating someoneif you can tell from your incompatibities, that you wont work out as a couple? Doesnt mean he should discount her as a person, just as a potential partner.
     
  3. whereami

    whereami Member

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    Assuming you're referring to my post: I said it wasn't enough to affect our sex life otherwise. If you weren't referring to my post,then nevermind me. :p

    I do think it's a bit tasteless to have given this thread the title that it is. But hey,to each his/her own. If someone who doesn't masturbate is enough to bail on them then that's their choice,just like I personally wouldn't settle with someone who doesn't perform orally. Life's too short. ;)
     
  4. ihmurria

    ihmurria fini

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    Many women don't like vibrators. there's nothing wrong with that. It's just a sensation/type of touch that not everyone is keen on. Personally, I love 'em, but not every chick is like that, we're all unique and different.
     
  5. ledzeppelinlover

    ledzeppelinlover Member

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    masturbation and sex are different things to me. i mean one it's you and you and the other is you and someone. so really it doesn't matter how much they masturbate if you ask me.
     
  6. chris_1661

    chris_1661 Member

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    According to the law, it IS illegal to have sex under the age of 16.

    If you are interested in the girl herself, and not just for your sexual satisfaction (masturbating) then by all means date her.

    If you are only interested interested in the sexual side of it, then that can't be good. If she knows that that is all you want from her, then she won't be too impressed, and she might dump you.

    There is more to a relationship than just sex, but the two of yas can have a private discussion amongst yourselves about masturbation, and ask her if she has ever done it, and how feels about it, and if she ever enjoys it.

    If she doesn't, then at least you've asked her, and then at least you'll know how she feels.

    I Hope that my advice has helped.
     

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