She Can't Feel My Dick During Sex When I Go At A Moderate Pace?

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  1. Coollaxer1290

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    When we have *** she tells me she doesn't feel anything at all unless I'm going real fast or real slow. I'm 6 " long and 5" girth. Is that small? We took each others virginits so I can't imagine she's really stretched out.. But after a little while around 15 minutes she gets a little dry but still somewhat wet and she starts to burn inside, is thier a reason this is happeng? And also she said she's sore and it stings afterwards...... How does it hurt if she can't feel me I her half the time? It's kinda embarrassing that she can't feel me when I go at a more mellow pace. Is it me? Or her? We've talked about it and we just don't know if we're doing somtbinf wrong. She's also dissapointed it's not like porn. I'm already sensitive about my size so when she says she can't feel it at all really embarrassed me. Is it me or her? And am I small? And any tips??
     
  2. Vanilla Gorilla

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    Three asterisk instead of 'sex'

    Really?
     
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  3. drumminmama

    drumminmama Super Moderator Super Moderator

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    6x5 isn't small.
    It is painful, perhaps, with that girth.

    As for not feeling, it's a matter of focus.
    You two are new at this, so it's a learning curve.

    And, lube is your friend. Water based or silicone.
     
  4. Coollaxer1290

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    How can I go faster for longer so I can give her more pleasure?
     
  5. drumminmama

    drumminmama Super Moderator Super Moderator

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    The easy answer is thicker condoms. Decreases sensation for you.
    The more accurate, long term answer is practice.

    And nothing is like porn. It's the comic books of sex.
     
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  6. rollingalong

    rollingalong Banned

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    my wife cant feel my pecker when i'm having sex either



    because i'm usually with my girlfriend during sex
     
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  7. Vanilla Gorilla

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    Bar-rumpt....tish
     
  8. newbie-one

    newbie-one one with the newbiverse

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    * edit. pointless
     
  9. WayneCider

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    First off, *** is unnecessary. Makes me wonder if you're over 15

    Secondly, if she can feel you if you go real slow, size isn't the issue, friction seems to be since she feels a burning sensation. Thnk about it, burn = friction = she's too dry. Use bottled lube... ID Glide is pretty good. Silicone lube in general is best in my opinion.

    Once pain sets in, which is totally unnecessary if you use lube, the pleasure center within the brain shuts down and she's just waiting for things to be over with. That's why she feels the soreness without feeling you.

    Tips? Tell her to be on top so she can control the motion. If she's too inexperienced or too embarrassed to ride you, she needs to get over that if you both want to enjoy sex with each other.
     
  10. iamjustme

    iamjustme Wishful thinker HipForums Supporter

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    ^^^^ What he said
     
  11. Scrappyminx

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    Yes yes, sound advice
     

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