I've gone back to smooth for the summer - I was keeping it short there for the winter....I love summer......
My and I visit nudist campground/resorts and I can tell you that 99% of men and women are shaved clean. All ages.
I'm new to shaving cocks the problem I have is sharing my balls................other wise I love it and so so the girls and the guys also since I'm bi...
It takes time to get it right, shaving takes me 30 seconds at most, you just have to get used to it. Tip always shave downwards the way the hair grows never go against it, go against it is a great way to get ingrowing hairs and those it all day, ingrowing is something I don't get now, but found the best way was to pick them out with a clean sowing needle then pluck them out after, they soon heal.
Carry a razor and shaving cream with you going on a date, that will work. Want to try mine always shaved and ready.
I had issues with disposable razors. They are made too cheaply and instead of shaving well I got little cuts. When I changed to the multi blade expensive razor with a very light touch the issue went away. Shaving every other day with a quality shave cream and quality razor keeps me smooth and comfortable. No ingrowns, no cuts, just smooth and bare.
Shaved or trimmed very low. If I am going to shave I hope he will also. Not a deal breaker, just a preference.