My girl and I have been together for 5 years now. We live together and we are pretty much as we were married. About a month ago we started talking more about our fantasies and I confessed that I wouldlike to see her being fucked by another man. We decided that was to dangerous because what if I get jealous and insecure. We also thought about the detrimental consequences of getting into the swinging lifestyle. The other day I asked her if shed considered being with someone else blindfolded. That way she wouldn't see the actual person and still have the experience. She said she would like that. Is it wrong for us to do that? Does it make any difference? I feel if she doesn't see an actual face then there wouldn't be a problem later on? Please share your thougths
I don't think it is wrong but she is still aware that she is having sex with someone else. So who ever might have a problem will still. Also for you, it may sound fun, but ideas are sometimes better left as a fantasy and not really explored.
Very hot. Also a fantasy of ours. I wonder though...how would the blindfold make you less jealous, if at all? Is the act itself going to make you jealous/insecure, or is thinking if she knew who it was, she might develop feelings for that guy? Lots of details to work out.
The best advice I can give is to talk about it with her as much as possible. Like the post before have said it all sounds good until your in that moment. And from there it can only go two ways either you love it and everyone is cool or you instantly regret it. And if the third is someone you know now you've possibly alienated 2 people close to you. On the other side of the coin coming from someone who has been there and had a successful mfm encounter ( my gf of 3 yrs and my best friend from high school) it can be very erotic and a huge turn on and of course a lot of fun. I knew I wouldn't be jealous because he was a good friend and a great guy and I guess in my mind I felt like he deserved it he had just gotten out of a shit relationship....so what's a friend to do but offer some fun lol. Anyway all was well and we are still great friends my relationship with her did end but it was a few years later for completely separate reasons. We often revisited trying again but never could agree on the guy. So I guess that's another piece of advice choose your third wisely. For me I wanted a guy that would treat and respect her like I did. That can definitely be a source of a bad experience. For me oral is not as intimate as vaginal intercourse so he stuck to getting head from her, maybe that's something to think about. Whatever you end up doing take your time, really think about it and the possible ramifications, and for gods sakes keep it relaxed and ease into things it will happen if it's meant to. Don't rush or force anything that's the fastest way to have things go wrong. A little wordy but hope it helps.
Wife and I had a great open relationship, before we got married. For the main reason I traveled for work, and was away during the week. We talked about it, and never jumped into anything. She had a few things she wanted to try, and we just wasn't ready to settle down and start a family. Even at that, it was nearly 2 years before she had sex with another man. If one of you feel you might get jealous, don't do it. At a few parties we played blindfold games, and yes it can add excitement. good luck!
We tried a game of guess your husband's dick while blindfolded. We had 2 other couples but one of them chickened out at the last minute so my wife, me and our friends Jay and Joy did it. How it goes is the woman goes into the bedroom alone and puts on a blindfold. Then randomly one of us guys goes in and no talking just touching she has to feel around and see if she knows if it is her husband. The whole thing is a pretense really not a competition. Just a way to have authorized and fun exploration with someone else without it being too drama filled. We set a 3 minute time limit inside the room. My wife went first and Jay went in to be with her. I stood by the door trying to hear cause I was really turned on by this. Joy was inside another room waiting for her turn. I heard Jay say to her, you can take that off. He already violated the first rule about no talking but at that point who cares. I couldn't hear anything else so I went in to check on Joy to make sure she was still ok with all this. I had on a towel and a t shirt and asked her if she wanted me to drop the towel. She said no and giggled at me so we just talked. I let Jay stay inside with my wife for 10 minutes or so before I went to the room and knocked on the door. He came out a minute later and I saw he had a hard on underneath his towel. I couldn't wait to see my wife so I went inside. He blouse was unbuttoned quite a bit not all the way and she had on the blindfold. I let her touch me and take me inside her mouth ( another violation of the rules , just touching). I figured she did the same to Jay and that made me even hotter. It was a fun game we only played it once and we are all still very close friends
I wonder what a woman would think later. I can see where something like this might play tricks with her mind. To be blindfolded and bound, maybe a couple of men doing everything sexual to her, driving her wild, giving her the best sex she's ever had. Getting up and leaving after they are done, and the husband coming in and releasing her. Never telling her who they were. It would have to be pure torture, not knowing.
Having the wife or g/f blindfolded is great and even better for her. Just thinking about it makes me want to do it again. I always wanted to see how the wife fucks and wow. I didn't think she would get into it but was I wrong. Love watching her legs in the air pushing up like she couldn't get enough. One guy just couldn't get into it but it made her so hot we ended up fucking like crazy. I for one will say "do it and do it often"!
