My wife and I have shared the finer details of our experiences and to add to the fun, we have made suggestions for each other. Her eyes lit up when I made the suggestion of me going to the adult store and buying them a double dildo to share. She suggested that we have a sword fight and cum on each others dicks as we jerk ourselves, then lick it up from each other. Sounded good to me. Do you share with your s/o?
