Why do men think they need to give permission for their women to be shared. I think the word “Shared” should only apply to the women and “her”willingness to give herself to more than one man and not the man she is in a relationship with. It’s her decision, her body not his. Man don’t own them. If a woman wants to give herself to more than one man, I’m OK with that, But it her decision not his permission. Its not shared it’s personal. Shared sounds like it is a meal. So. Question: Who Shares and who Allows there wife to be with other men openly? Same for women. Do you allow this with your man openly?
To me it was that my husband said that he was ok with it! That he wanted to see me Pleased that made me feel good about it!
Shared is just a term people use. like cuckold, both terms we never used 40 years ago. A time when we used terms like Make love not war. We both made or own decisions, on who we played with. But no she didn't just provide a service to a man. We were both guilty of a few sympathy fucks. but that comes with anything.
I tend to agree with you. But,the woman must be the one controlling whether or not she give herself to another man. The man should not think he owns her. She has the POP. (Power of the Pussy)
I noticed the new 24 pack mcnugget box at MacDonalds is now being advertised as a "share" box. Lol. Yeah right. Dem 24 macnuggets are mine niggaz.
i think this was the thread that i actually posted a rare serious response in on tuesday, right when the site decided to stop working for the night. too bad, i don't remember what i had tried to say now, and it will probably be another year before i attempt another serious post.
some women are very submissive to their husband or boyfriend so will let them make sharing decisions for them. my boyfriend does not ever share me to anyone. i fool around when he is away at concerts in another country but very faithful when he is local.
Because many men and women have an exclusivity agreement and the man has to give permission to alter that agreement. Permission to go outside the marriage should be given by both partners. I agree that the term "sharing" implies a degree of control that doesn't exist.
Sorry, and I am sure I will catch flak for saying this....but any man who wants to "share" his wife, is one of two things....period. 1) He wants to fuck someone else, so "allowing" his wife to do so, gives him permission to carry out his own fantasy. 2) He watches too much porn, bored with it, and now wants to turn his wife into his own live porn show. Either way, there is no love in this relationship. It is one thing to "swing" or have an open marriage. It is a whole other deal if you want to sit and watch your wife get fucked by someone else. That is not about the wife, it is about the man getting off watching it happen. And you have to seriously ask yourself just how low of an opinion does he have about you if he is more interested in fulfilling HIS sexual fantasies than the sanctity of your relationship.
When we were in our 30's, I asked my wife if she wanted to have sex with other men. She had experienced others in college, and she said that she might be interested in doing it again. I told her it was okay with me as long as it was just for fun and that she would tell me all about it. She had a few experiences and then decided that was all she needed. For the past 30 years, she has only been with me.
Sorry, but my wife and I completely disagree with this. We both are very much in love and think the absolute world of each other. Neither of us would ever push either of us into anything we wouldn’t want to do, but we do occasionally indulge in a bit of fun with others. Personally, I love to se my wife being pleasured by another, but it’s always special between ourselves too. We know it’s not for everyone, but comments are based on your own beliefs and experiences, so not really right to judge or make such statements. Neither of us would dream of pushing others into what we do or our opinions. It’s just what we like to do. We are consenting adults after all.
It's just a word! Semantics! Besides that, there are couples in which the female half actually LOVES being seen as a property that can be passed around. Even more, not having any say in his decision to share her with X is arousing for her. So don't worry about the usage of 'shared'.
