Share your body insecurities...well help you get over it!

oh yeah and I hate my skin.. it's kinda oily and such.. plus ever since I got my dreads my forehead looks like a war zone

 

Agree with small boobies!!!!

And I also hate my nose. It's too big for my small face! I think I get it from my Dad's side of the family! If I could change one thing about me, it would def. be my nose!!!!

 

my belly

 

okay...
i'm 5'3 and i'm 65 kilo's
i got a big ass and my legs are too short and fat
i got stretchmarks i hate
my tummy is too big
i have like a few hairs that seem to have lost their way, i mean they really should not be on my arm, under my bellybutton and that one annoying hair under my chin. grrrrr i hate that. if i wear eyeshadow you dont see it (look at my pics then you'll see what mean) its like i look sad all the time. people ask me are you mad? are you okay? all the time. and theres always something that itches, which means you see me scratch alot lol. oh and i'm too damn white, glow in the dark.

 

i have a bad rash all over my stomach and arms .....it itchs......and i have a dimple ass and thighs .....and stretch marks from my growth spert!



i dont like them

 

I think my knees are knobby and sticky outish. I mean, my legs are fine and all, it's just, my knees make everything so icky. I guess I don't like how fat my thighs are. And I don't like the fat o my tummy. And I have scars all up and down my arm that I guess I'm self-conscious about. I don't like it when people stare and whisper. I am what I am. I wish they would just accept it.

 

i'm far from perfect, but i found the perfect man for me - he thinks i am THE most beautiful woman it helps a lot that he's always ogling me and chasing me around - lol!

my ears are uneven - so my sunglasses always look lopsided. they are the same size, just one is a little higher than the other. silly, huh?

as for the things i really hate about my body, my knee sometimes hurts so bad i can hardly walk, my elbow feels like i have arthritis, & i have a bad back if i'm not careful all the time not to strain it. sucks gettin old. well, not so much the gettin old, just the feeling old...

 

lol mine are too.. and I wear glassses lol it sucks b/c most of my pictures have my glasses leaning pretty far to my left lol

 

yeah, i was mentally inventing an 'ear lift' today that you could put on the arm of the glasses to even things out a little bit. ya know, just a little rubber grommet or sumthin. they never have any of the shit i think up when i go looking for it at walmart...

 

haah, damn, I have the same thing. And I need glasses in a bad way....when I finally get them, I'm going to look pretty funny.

 

I presume that when they fit your glasses they will tweak them to sit level. It is pretty important that they do & I'm sure that there are lots of people that have this if there are two just in this forum.

 

I only have two insecurities: my acne (which I've had since I was 10) and my stretch marks. I had a weird growth spurt when I was younger. I grew a lot in a very short amount of time. I can't even wear a swimming suit without feeling self conscious.

 

Okay, this is making me want to cry just thinking of what to say and what I don't like about myself. When I was younger I've always had a little pudgy belly and still do, but now it looks wores because of the pregnancy's, the stretch marks and now my terible scars they go up and down instead of across. I have fat legs and always have, my boobs are small but the hubby says he likes them, but I don't really think he does, I feel he says that to make me feel better. I have glasses and have had them since I was 1yrs old and they bother me now, when I was in school I was always made fun of because of them, I can't get lasik because the Doc says it wont help. Im always depressed, and what for im not really sure other than the fact that im living with my in-laws, yeah they help me out ALOT and I mean ALOT, especialy with Skye, and for giving us a shelter and food, but still, we have our own family and we always have someone their helping us raise our son. I have no motivation what-so-ever to excersie and then I complain that I need to loose the weight that I have on me and want to tone my belly and my legs, but I exercise for one day then no more, motivation is gone. I have scares on my leg and foot, where the broken bone was, it didn't leave scares (not the bone) and now Im afraid to go out in skirts or dresses or shorts, I don't want anyone to see them. I always let people walk all over me and I can't ever say no, I never talk about my feels right then and there it's allways a month later, and is pointless to say and makes me crabby. Im always crabby and makes hubby mad, and I don't know why im this way, wish I did. I feel im not good enough for anyone, ie, hubby or son, let alone myself, I have no self asteam, or confidence, if im scared of something I wont do it. Every day it's the same for me, either im happy one minute, or sad the nest. I can't drive and have to rely on everyone to take me places. I know this is alot but hey that's all that I don't like about me,wish I didn't feel this way. I think I need some major help.
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A couple more things, my ass has dimples on it, and my thighs, and last thing that sucks the most, is that im fair skined and if I go out in the sun for not even 5mins not shitting you, it's true, I almost roast, I can not tan for the life of me, and im tired of it. Im glad to hear that im not the only one with hairy boobs, and tummy though, it's nice to know that some else shares that, and it's not just me.







Also, this makes me feel better by venting. My hubby got all upset, witch got me all up set, and it helps to talk about what I don't like about me, I don't know why, maybe it helps me to forget what I was upset about in the first place.

 

well lets seeee...

i hate my nose

the bags under my eyes

the fact my face always gets puffy in the mornings

my chin

 

hippyland....
First off I looked at your picture and you have a very very pretty face, so you should feel good about that...

but stuff like what you said is why I started this thread...for me it makes me feel better to actually vocalize what i dont like, becuse then i have to face it, and alot of times the stuff doesnt seem quite as bad...

but you should tkae comfort in the fact that you have a beautiful son, a husband who loves you, and family that cares enough about you guys to help you out....

sorry if that didnt really help, but if you ever need someone to talk to feel free to send me a pm..

 

I just looked through your gallery. Of course I didn't see any pictures of when you first woke up but there is absolutely nothing wrong with your nose, chin or eyes. OK, maybe you did a good job with make-up on your eyes but it just didn't look like you had any on.

You look great. Believe it.

 

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I hate my nose. I truly do, but what can i do about it? Im big nosed and thats it, but one thing im sure about-i dont want any operations and shits on me. Overall i dont like my facial structure.