Share your body insecurities...well help you get over it!

Discussion in 'Women's Forum' started by GreenButterflyDaisy, Oct 12, 2005.

  1. SunshineLovePeace

    SunshineLovePeace all you need is love

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    :D :D thank you
     
  2. happiedaze42

    happiedaze42 Member

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    I have cellulite under my butt...like around my upper thighs. back when i was younger you couldn't see it but this past year it has become more noticeable and i have to admit that i am really embarassed about it. i run still like i used to but not as much, and when i do i don't wear shorts anymore cause i'm embarassed that you can see it. :0(
     
  3. GreenButterflyDaisy

    GreenButterflyDaisy Desi

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    Oh babe dont do that!
    One day really take a look around you and think abotu the people you have seen that werent perfect and still showed off their bodies!
    I mean I have too much hair, stretch marks all over the place, "shelf tummy" syndrome, weird man sholders and have been spotting for going on 8 months lol but I still walk around naked in front of people sometimes and still wear short shorts and skirts so short they make my mother blush
    You HAVE to be proud of your body...itll always keep changing and doing things you hate, and things you love and things other people will love too...
    One thing I have learned from all the posts is that EVERYONE has something they are not 100% happy about but if we worry about it or let it dictate what we wear (except in extreme cases) then we will go completely crazy!
    so I say all of us say fuck it and love our bodies in all their mishapen hairy bony too tall quirkyness!
    ok...im done now ;)
     
  4. Bocks

    Bocks Senior Member

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    ARGH, stretch markssss! They make me so self-conscious. If I wear anything that I fear might reveal them, I fidget until I get to put something else on. Also, I don't like my boobs; they're oversized for my preference. I would enjoy athletics so much more if they were smaller. Also, I have these freckly things around my torso, on the skin, and no doctor has been able to get of them as of yet. Still, these are all trivial.
     
  5. Bocks

    Bocks Senior Member

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    You have really nice feet though, despite any other major flaws you may feel you have.
     
  6. rubytuesday

    rubytuesday Member

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    And having nice feet is a privilege. Appreciate your feet! There's plenty of people who don't have nice feet.
    Some people even have CRACKS in their feet and can't wear sandals without looking like the Hulk.
     
  7. Apples+Oranjes

    Apples+Oranjes Bekkasaur

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    I don't know if I posted on here before but my body insecurities are my legs--- they aren't chubby, but they are short. I have a really long torso and it makes my legs look super short, and I hate wearing anything besides pants or LONG skirts.

    I also hate my nose, it looks like a pig nose. ;lakdjf
     
  8. Bocks

    Bocks Senior Member

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    I disagree. It's funny how we tend to concentrate on flaws instead of finding compensation for them in other areas. For example, if you think you have a large nose, you should concentrate on your commendable teeth.
     
  9. verseau_miracle

    verseau_miracle Banned

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    I have a tiny, tiny, tiny line of blonde hair running down from my navel for about 3 inches:D Which is weird, seeing as i naturally have brown hair:S

    Also people say i look anorexic because my waist goes inwards so much. And my skins really pale like an albino. And i have blueish bags under my eyes too often.

    Love-Maxi.Xx
     
  10. Apples+Oranjes

    Apples+Oranjes Bekkasaur

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    Yeah, I can agree there, I think everyone is too self-critical---but even knowing that, sometimes it's hard for me to not fall victim to it.

    And I do like my teeth :D
     
  11. EarthMama8503

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    My number one security is my belly. I have a rather big tummy, that looks rather, old. I also have a double chin, even though I am not overweight.
     
  12. Nisha

    Nisha Forlorn.

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    okay well I really don't like my thighs people and I don't like my ass... its made for another body type.

    I don't know how I feel about the scars I am giving myself by cutting but I know I can't complain because I'm giving them to myself.
     
  13. high_down_under

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    im a bit self-concious about my face. sometimes i think i look a bit fat, but other days i feel fine.

    iv decided to ignore the mirror
     
  14. Azura_Mist

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    I don't like how my nipples are too sensitive. When I was younger, they were inverted, and they sort of reverted out as I got older. I'm a 38DD so if I brush up against something accidentally, sometimes I'll get that... eek... feeling if even in a bra and sweatshirt I'll feel the little ones sticking out. I've tried giving myself "therapy" by constantly putting my hands and fingers on them when I'm alone in privacy or whatnot, but it still hasn't helped that much.
     
  15. happiedaze42

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    thank you so much hun....you're a sweetheart :D and i couldn't agree with you more!!!
     
  16. SunshineLovePeace

    SunshineLovePeace all you need is love

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    i forgot to say, i have terrible teeth...
     
  17. brandee

    brandee Member

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    [​IMG]I lost a lot of weight but now i seem to be stuck.I just don't feel good enough and it is affecting my current relationship.He says i'm beautiful but i can't make myself believe him.
     
  18. skankleft

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    I really like small breasts, they just look so natural and beautiful. Small is better in my opinion.


    Now mine:
    I hate my nose, I just can't stand it. The shape isn't too bad it is just big. I always feel like I'd look so much better if it was just a bit smaller.. or a lot smaller. Damn my Mom's genes.
     
  19. dancinattwilight

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    I despise my stomach. I have a riduculous amount of stretch marks. And when i say a ridiculous amount i MEAN it. I'd never call my self thin, but i'm not that big either. however, my tummy is covered w/ stretch marks.
     
  20. shaina

    shaina No War Know Peace

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    okay my turn....well first of all I'm short 5'1 which doesn't bother me to much but I have these huge boobs that are way to big for my small frame...i have these huge thighs and calves from my dads side(there dutch) that should be on one of those like amazon lady's if i could just have nice legs i would be happy!!! i can never wear skirts or shorts without looking stocky even though i'm not fat...i have naturally wayyyy curly hair like an african person except its not kinky just super frizzy so i have to straighten it everyday oh yeah and lately my skin has been breaking out horrible...okay thats it i'll stop now
     

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