I read these comments and posts and see sexual hunger in many people. I feel when a person understands himself and his sexuality, his likes, his fantasies like people are displaying in these conversations, he or she will live a fuller more complete and satisfying life when they come in contact with another human that reflects the same energies. Many will put on airs on a first date just to be "normal" and accepted by the other. But if you, when the door is finally opening in the start of a relationship that is when a person must be the most honest. If not he or she will be posting their "never to be completed" fantasies in these comments. So if you are beginning a relationship sexual proclivities are extremely important to put out in the open. Then you will be able to fufill all the fantasies you write about. Don't be afraid to talk about every sexual experience you've ever had because they all have molded you into what you are and want and need so much. Your new mate more than likely will appreciate you for it.
Here is an example. I was single and met with a group of people every night after work for some beers. Then one night a girl slid into my booth, we talked and she suggested my place. I said lets have one more and discuss this. I got to the point quickly. I said we have been around the block many times. First of all I know if we go to my place we will do the usual stuff and be faced with the normal expectations in the morning. So I want to be perfectly honest with you. I will never marry you. I will never have kids with you. I will have fun with you for however long it lasts but that's the way it is. She thought about it and said, "sounds good let's go." We did and as I drove to my house she without a word unzipped my pants and pulled out my friend. I wound up pulling over and on the side of the road we did a 69. We got to my place and sexed all night. For the next 2 years we did everything sexually imaginable. She was just about the best partner I've ever had all because it started with honesty. We never said the word love. It was all maintainence and we knew it. One day she said she wants to get married and have kids. I said I will help you find a good guy. She said good by, no tears at all. One week later she came over and told me about her first date away from me. She said she did have sex and it wasn't that good. I was so turned on that I just had to smell and eat the pussy and search for the anchovi. Then she was gone. Then I met my wife. We've see each other in the office for several years and casually new eachother but we were not attracted to each other. Then we had to work together on a project and we needed to brainstorm together. We worked well together and enjoyed each others company. Then I asked to get together on a day off, not a date. She said ok. We talked about a lot of things including sex. She actually asked me If I masturbated much. I said yes I do it I have no one at the time. She said the same thing. Then she said do you want to masturbate now. She was sitting across from me. Talk about breaking the ice and safe sex. We agreed and I dropped my pants and she pulled up her dress and dropped the panties. We looked into eachothers eyes as we did our selves. I was very turned on. Knowing she was very open I didn't feel bad about asking her if I could borrow her panties to smell and enhance my experience. That question sent her over the top and she came quickly. She gave me her panties I put them up to my nose and and they smelled like FDS which I was very familiar with and that smell brought back other sex memories and I came quickly. We've been married 20 years, no secrets.
