Man.. It's been a long time running since I've got the pleasure of enjoying sex with a woman. It's to the point where I'm tempted to just find a working girl and pay for some sexual healing. I try to use the internet to meet women as I do have social anxiety and my chemical depression often over rides the will power I have toward being patient and persistent enough to actually get out and find a partner. I do eventually want a serious relationship but right now I'm just to the point where I want to honestly experience a quality blowjob from an attractive woman and maybe have some no strings attached casual fun... Ive signed up for thosevadult dating sites they always ask to pay and I believe most of them are scams6 and would be a waste of money.. I use fb with no luck mocospacd I mean does anybody know a legit social networking site that has a likelihood of me meeting some one with the same Intwntionz ? Porn has gotten to be boring and I mean... I'm craving the real life sexual experience what can I do to find a partner and not come off as a pervert or offensive. .im really ready to crack...
Hi Justlivin Having family members and friends with both depression and anxiety I know how difficult it can be to get motivation up to go out and meet people. I know it's hard when you are sexually frustrated and all you can think about is getting some but perhaps, with depression and anxiety, it may be better getting to know a person first before jumping into bed with them - if you build up familirisation and a relationship it will be less stressful in the long run. Find things that interest you, go out and do them and hopefully meet like minded women, only good will come from it. Failing that I think people looking for an easy hook up tend to use tinder (just make sure that the other party knows you are not after a relationship to avoid heart ache).
So just a few thought... Background on me is I had a loveless/sexless marriage for too many years. Once the kids went off to college, I divorced and was single awhile and eventually remarried. So... I have several-several years of experience living no sex. Porn got very boring, I did find some solace in cam2cam sites when they use to be good before they all got bought up and now just fronts for paid models. Just wrote that so you would know that I do know what you are feeling. Questions/Comments 1) Is your taste higher than what you can get? I have known several guys and gals that were single and rarely dated much because the folks they tried to get were well out of their reach. 2) Body styles.... don't mean to sound mean, but are you looking within your own body style (weight)? Again, over the years I knew some guys that were well overweight and kept trying to find gals with playboy model bodies. Not likely to happen. 3) Rjm is dead on. If you already posses mental issues, and hard to be social with people you could be setting yourself up for failure. Male performance problems are overwhelmingly caused by mental issues. It doesn't sound like it to me you would be successful with a stranger. Cheers
Well I'm a thin guy I wouldn't consider myself the hottest guy in the planet but I honestly *sometimes can say... I look in the mirror and think "I'm alright looking I am happy with this " but I know perception is subjective and that... Beauty is in the eye of the beholder but... On the mental health thing... Ahh yes I do have problems. I have chemical depression... Social anxiety and I have a little bit of a consistency with people saying I'm bipolar... I mean but... I do have rejection issues especially when it's someone I've built up a high affinity for and they've... Decided after a while of growing close to be done with me. It hurts a lot and it gets me to suicidal points. I just... I really want someone to be with that I find beautiful and enjoy their personality and they are emotionally therapeutic to be around. I. Really want that but I have some problems lately I've been struggling HEAVIalY with alcohol and it's bad because I've became a reclusive drunk... But yes thanks for your replied but right now.. Sex isn't my mission I'm actually disgusted looking at porn right now... It's weird.
Keep getting the help that you know you need. Leave sex on the back burner, as a very low priority, as you say you've done in the 10 days between your original posting and your most recent posting in this thread. Unless you can handle the responsibilities of being a parent, you shouldn't be having sex anyway. From what you've posted, you need to get your own life together before you even think about engaging in sexual activity with another person. Sure it's a natural urge to want it, but you have to weigh the consequences to the life of the person you'd be having sex with. If you were a healthy and well-adjusted woman, would you want to invite a man such as your actual self in your current state into your bed? Keep sex as a low priority for now. Most people aren't regularly having sex. Even among married couples, 15-20 percent are sexless. You aren't alone.
