Do you find there are some women who initially come across as being uninterested, aloof, etc. but then over time and getting more comfortable with the person, you start making sexually-tinged jokes and incorporating sex into your discussions, and suddenly all of a sudden there seems to be a real opportunity for sex with that person? It might also come with knowing the person for a period of time and becoming more comfortable with each other, I think. I have found that sometimes with women you have to be overtly sexually forward in how you speak to them in order to progress things, while worrying you might go overboard and be more frank than they would like, causing the whole thing to backfire. Does anyone know what I am talking about, or am I just rambling? I am on very little sleep.
i think everyone that i've ever slept with.....it just kinda happened. there was no joking or talking about sex before hand. with female friends that i joke about sex with, i'm pretty sure there'd be little chance of sex between us even if i wasn't married. meaning that i'm not interested in sex with someone other than my wife...but if i was single, i don't think i'd be sexing up the girls in my life that i joke around with. i think they are just joking. but iprobably would be thinking a lot about sex with those women. that may be the case here. i'm honestly no expert though.
I think a well delivered sexual joke is like gold, but it has to be with the right women, and can backfire if not delivered with confidence and at the appropriate time. I've actually had women I just met throw their phone numbers at me because I made them laugh with a well placed sexual joke.
Some of my female co workers & I joke about sex topics sometimes & there are one or 2 of them I fantasise about sexually. Some of them act / talk sexy & it's bit of a turn on for me. Some of them would get a shock if they knew just how much I really like them more than I let on.
it always makes me smile when I see a reply post from you starting with "my female co-workers & I..." where the heck do you work?? I always imagine you and a couple of chicks working in an office, standing around the water cooler all the time talking about sex... lol but I don't think you work in an office, do you?
I think I know what you're talking about. But I'm also lacking sleep. you & I have been fucking like rabbits so yeah there's never any time to sleep!! joking, thought I'd throw in a sexually forward example for fun
No, not an office but in a supermarket & we work at nights & our conversations only take place during either our coffee breaks or if we are socialising after working hours. Its only a few of the females that I get on very well with that we know each other better as we have worked together for a long time. They are very good friends of mine & we know what we can do to say or do to each other without offending each other.My co workers are all females except for 2 other guys.
We have most of our chats in the staffroom when we are having our tea / coffee breaks. There's one woman who I get on exceptionally well with that sometimes touches my nipples with her hands on the outsides of my clothing & I don't mind it all. I don't find her attractive but like her in other ways.
I am seriously going to write a movie script based on just the little information you've given me- super market co-workers discussing sex tentatively titled New Zealand Male, if that's aright with you? not a porn ha ha.. indie comedy, of course
How about 'the confessions of a supermarket employee' ? And that's only one of the 2 jobs I have at my workplace.
I like it when some woman flirt with me & allow me to do something similar. Just makes life more interesting !
so the only thing you talk about on HF is your sexy coworkers and how you want to have sex with them. occassionally i've seen you mention your wife and how you wish you were having sex with your coworkers... So naturally this makes me curious....what do you talk about with your coworkers? I'm assuming you don't sit around discussing how sexy you think they are and how you wish you could have sex with them. Do you talk about normal things - books, movies, tv shows you watched the night before? sorry to go off topic lol but I'm interested in NZ....his internet persona is just so one dimensional. I'm just curious if he has any interests and conversation pieces in real life outside of his sexy coworkers. What do you talk about with your wife?
I give nzmale credit for being honest about what he wants, and I think he says things a lot of guys feel and think but don't have the balls to say.
Yes , we do talk about many other topics as well & we have a few things in common we have either gone thru in life or know someone who has. Only some of the woman I work with are attractive & I have told them what I think of them & they were grateful I gave them compliments. My wife gets them from me as well. Yes, I have several interests / hobbies as well that I am well known for. My wife & I share a few similar interests but we have others that we don't share the same in. There are many attractive females at my workplace but I don't work with them but get to chat to thou. There are guys as well at my work but only 2 are in my department.
THANK YOU MIKE ! If I think someone deserves a compliment. I pay them one even if I don't know them at all. The other day I sent a txt message to one of my female friends I work with & told her a few things I liked about her & she was flattered & thanked me. She is much younger than me , is married & has kids. She just doesn't know I like her a lot more than I let on. She acts sexy & is cute & has a nice figure & a great personality & sense of humour. I even taught her a few meanings of some sexual topics she'd never heard of before. She's an ex overseas person who has a few new slang words & meanings to learn yet. She speaks English but doesn't know some naughty meanings of some. I teach her a few, she teaches me some to from her country.
