Sexual secrets from partner?

You too ?

 

I would like to hear a few secrets from her. Don't believe I ever will.

 

Yeah , me too .

 

Her secrets from me was, with other women, she never considered that cheating. So I don't know all the women names. I wonder at times who they were. And there could be other men, because we both traveled for work from time to time.

 

Another thing I could never get a straight answer to was; If women were better at oral than men?

 

Before my wife said I DO she was 18 and felt she best tell be she had over a dozen and even with a brother. I figured it was in her past and over. Did get me to tell her I was gay at 12 but over it and had 3 other, one that was married. Thankfully not got any pregnant. The husband shot at me and divorced her. Did my best to tell him I am sorry and my fault. She later met and married a much nicer or guy. We temp had a secret when she had incest with our 14 son. All forgiven. No secrets

 

Was it good for him? (If you're going learn, best to learn from someone with experience, don't you think?)

 

Traveling from work puts you both at high risk. If your able to deal with she might have sex while out of town then you will be OK. One night stands happen often in your situation. It is best that she feels safe to tell you and give her a hall pass. You do not need to be happy about it but maybe be happy she is not lonely. Assuming she uses protection it is best to give your OK. Extra sex takes nothing from you. We don't call it cheating and she does do this often. Wish you luck.

 

We had open relationship, she was free as was I. She didn't want it to be with friends. I broke that rule, later she opened up to that.

 

It/is so much of a turn on for me with my fwb. I know her since she was 18. She is now 51 and I am 10 years older. We have been intimate for quite some time and we pretty much know each others secrets but every now and then she will tell me something I did not know like sleeping with a restaurant manager or fucking a neighbor or store worker or even valet parking attendant. I know she has been with countless people but it so turns me on

 

dont feel bad my first wife had quite a few some she never did tell of course I had my own as I had a few gay encounters
The one i really wish I knew is when she got pregnant the first time and had an abortion dont know iwth who , how far along or how she got that way as she was on the pil.
ultimatly she passed away and will never know. dont know if it was mine or someone else

 

Yes am sure he enjoys but we all know wrong and illegal. Also concerned as pill not 100% and his sister has asked him to massage her and I just know how that could end. I refuse to massage her while nude as will not cross that line. My wife sees nothing wrong with this.

 

I shared my episode of pulling off with a friend way back. My first wife was not impressed and finally used it against me to smear me. My present wife knows and has heard it all and is even OK with me having a play with bi men now, not that I have for over a decade. The two wives are chalk and cheese.

 

When my wife asked me about 3 years ago about what my answer would be if she had asked me she wanted too have sex with another man she knew what my answer would be, coz I had told her that I had sheared all my GF's before her. The frequency I sheared my former GF's (mostly with my best friend, he fucked my GF's almost as much as I did, but also with a lot of other guys...) never came up, coz she never asked.. Other than that I don't think I have a lot of secrets too tell her...

 

Two years into our marriage my wife confessed one of her secrets. In college she had three gang bangs each time with five guys.

I was overturned on when she told me so we set it up. I was older than the guys she found, I tried keeping up and failed.

Watching her with these guys was like being live on a porn shoot. I found myself stroking cock while looking in her eyes.

She laughed when I came, oddly enough it was a turn on.

 

So why did your wife have sex with your son? Whose idea was it, hers or his? Are they in an ongoing sexual relationship? Or was it just a one-time thing?

 

And why did she have sex with her brother? Was it because she was horny and he was a convenient partner?

 

I usually didn't talk about these things to my partners because I was afraid they would find it too dirty. Unless they knew about it because I did it with them too.

 

What do you mean that if your son massages his sister, you know how that could end? Do you mean your son and daughter might have sex with each other as a result of him massaging her? What makes you think that?

 

I’ll take several sexual secrets to my grave. My first real gf and ex LTRs have no clue that I had a frequent suck buddy (same friend) in HS and college. That would have been the end of those relationships. When my current wife and I were first hooking up, we had some pillow talk after a great session. I confessed way too much, as did she. I think we both got off on our fantasies and sexual pasts. We both had fantasies of MFMs, bi sex. I figured if our relationship was going to be long haul she needed to know, and she felt I needed to know ALL about each other. I blurted out about my suck buddy. She was initially shocked. “You sucked cock?” Yes. “Did you swallow?” Yes! “You’d share me?” Yes! After all she fantasized about having two men. We ended up having a few MFMs, to the point she suggested finding a bi guy to service. Never found the right bi guy. There are some secrets she will never know about, but I’m glad I put most everything else in the open initially.