Sexual Frequency For Seniors

Discussion in 'Sexual Health' started by Panama Jack, Jan 3, 2017.

  1. Panama Jack

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    This is a continuation of help for seniors. Frequent and routine sex is very important to each senior, whether you are married or single. I personally am married to a wonderful wife that share the same sexual beliefs. We are a heterosexual couple with a strong commitment to our individual sexual health. We have no problem talking about sex. In fact we talk about it daily, just like diet and exercise. We believe in masterbation,oral,toys and porn. The notion that your sex life dies as you enter your senior years is just false. I am 63 and my wife is 58 and we have sex 3-4 weekly average. We believe that if you are single to master bate weekly. We also believe that you should find a FWB (Friend with Benefits) or fuck buddy. This goes for women as well. We don't believe it is taboo. It's for "Your" health. Do not allow yourself to be stereotyped by society. We simply refuse to let our sex life die. Your close friends know we are sexually active. Our doctor knows because we are very open with him. We encourage you to use your sexual life to keep you healthy. The benefits are numerous.
    Need help. Question, Just ask a senior guy.
     
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  2. olderndirt

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    My wife and I are 60 and have sex about once a week.
     
  3. Panama Jack

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    I do understand that sex drive can decrease as we get older. My own sex drive was in a slump at one time. However,it takes conscious effort to increase it. Check with your Doctor regarding your T-Level. They have medicines implants for you and your wife. It will improve the quality of your life.
     
  4. olderndirt

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    We're happy at once a week. No adjustment necessary. For us, it ,makes each opportunity more of a special time together.
     
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    no one listens to the radio anymore, all that shit is on the web now
     
  6. John1234567

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    I am getting old. Hope my sex life is not going to be how we all thought old people never had sex
     
  7. Daretobare

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    I'm 66 and still have the same sexual urges as I have ever had but suffer from ED. My wife is 65 and no longer has any interest. She was through most of our marriage very sexual. Health issues and others influence changed her to what she is now.
     
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    I'll be 66 next month. My sex drive is as strong as it ever has been & I don't have any problems with ED. What I do have is a wife with a lack of interest in sex. She's the only woman that I've actually had full penetration sex with. When we were dating & first married, we had sex about every day & often multiple times a day. Then.... kids came along & she seemed to lose interest in sex. She made it sound like she feared more pregnancies, so we agreed that I'd get a vasectomy. That didn't help at all. The frequency of sex dwindled to the point that it's a good year when we do it six times.
    So, I masturbate more days of the week than I don't. I became interested in anal play (with myself & objects) to help satisfy my urges, but still want a good diet of intercourse.
    I've threatened that I'd go elsewhere for sex if she didn't start wanting it more, but that didn't change things either. I've never cheated on her yet, but I really think that if the right situation came about, I very likely would.... a guy does have needs.
     
  9. 82 here, still have libido, but absolutely no interest in sex --- had plenty "growing up" , can't be bothered too busy taking care of arthritis needs.
     
  10. Barry Thrift

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    73 here, the only thing that has slowed me down is having a pulmonary embolism last year, up until then I was a four times a week man and sometimes everyday.

    Having a PE really takes it out of you, so sex is on the back burner, but I'm still looking after that side, do penis exercises and use a penis pump, just hope I get the urge more often and so does the wife, so its nice when we do have sex.
     
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    Unless you are already taking prescribed anticoagulants, are at risk from aneurysm or have any allergy to the analgesic. 80,mg of aspirin per day may improve blood flow in the pulmonary blood vessels affected.
    It is a recognized medication, but often forgotten after the original treatment.
    It may be a good idea to have a word with your doctor, since it can also help to avoid TIA and strokes. But whatever you do, never exceed 80,mg unless instructed by a doctor. The RDA dosage on the bottle is NOT for use as a long term anticoagulant,

    An aspirin a day keeps recurrent DVT and PE away (RCT)
     
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  13. Barry Mandelay

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    Mid sixties male who has intercourse one to two times a month with different women outside my marriage. My spouse cannot be sexually active due to many medical issues but I continue on. Masturbation is for the in between times and five to seven times each week. There are times I masturbate twice in a single day. Just having my cock hard without masturbating is something I like and I have erections often throughout the day. I take ED meds in order to maintain my erection for long periods when I am with a woman. Otherwise, I am patient to let it come and go while I masturbate. Sex is on my mind often during my waking hours and I like to fall asleep at night while holding my erection. The following morning I waken with morning wood and revel in how wonderful my cock looks and feels being so hard. I am sexual all day long from there.
     
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  14. Barry Thrift

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    Wish my problem was that easy. its hard to find guys who have had PE and what there sex lives are like, mainly they don't like to talk about it being the sexual side of PE. but for me I will fight it my way, I masturbate daily if I can, I get erections and masturbate but it does not always work as it goes away and then on the odd day bingo and that feels so good.

    I cant really put my finger on it to the reason, but will keep fighting it. ( PE Pulmonary Embolism )
     
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  15. Si69

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    I'm in my 70th year and settled on being pure bottom about fifteen years ago. I'm perpetually horny, don't masturbate daily anymore as I did most of my life but manage regular hook-ups with younger guys, some in their teens.

    And going on to PrEP has been like a renaissance..... I've met more than 300 guys since I started 18 months ago

    Living remote I normally head for an urban area for a few days for rest and recreation :)
    Did this at beginning of August when covid restrictions were relaxed and even managed to get a few groups organised as well as one-off guys....some I met before, some new.

    I don't usually have any erection problems ......springs to life if there is another cock in the room, but use ciallis if there is going to be a long group session.

    So overall for me it tends to be feast or famine but I'm very happy that there are plenty of young guys who want to fuck us oldies.

    Simon :)
     
  16. olderndirt

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    My wife and I are in our 60's and continue to enjoy sex twice a month. I masturbate about twice a week and I think she enjoys stimulating herself occasionally. She was sexually active with others in her 30's with my permission, but since then it has just been the two of us.
     
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  17. Barry Thrift

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    Try having sex twice a week and masturbate twice a month better for and her.
     
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  18. scratcho

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    Ask Kenneth.
     
  19. olderndirt

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    That won't fit her schedule.
     
  20. Barry Thrift

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    She needs to get it changed then, as making love is more healthy for her.
     

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