Sexual Fantasy Origins

As we all know people's sexual fantasies are all over the place but I've always been curious as to what is the reason we are turned on by a particular thing.

For me my favorite fantasy developed over many years and it centered on my best friend's mom. Now I know that being attracted to a friend's mom is nothing unusual for a young guy. She had a great body, pretty face, the whole package.

The difference is along with having a lust for her body I got turned on thinking about her wrestling with other women. In my fantasies these were always one sided matches with the other woman totally dominating her. No punching the face or blood or anything like that.

Over the course of 30 plus years the matches became more erotic in nature with the other woman often forcing my friend's mom to pleasure her after the match.

My favorite scenario was at the end of the match the other woman would face sit her and have her lick her pussy. While she did that I would but my dick between my friend's mom's breasts and slide it back and forth until I blew my load all over her breasts.

The thing is this woman is one of the sweetest nicest people you'd ever want to meet and in real life I'd never want to see her harmed.

I use to feel bad about these thoughts but realized it's just a fantasy.

Still curious though if anyone had any thoughts on how this became such a turn on for me.

Any feedback would be appreciated.

 

Well fantasies change over the years but friends mothers is normal my friend.

 

Some fantasies endure, regardless of how much time has passed.

I graduated from high school 47 years ago. Even since then, I've been fantasizing about a girl that I was friends with during my entire senior year. She was a tall, gorgeous blonde with a beautiful face and a great figure. She and I spent a lot of time together over the course of that year. Among other things, she was the leader of the varsity cheerleading team. I was the only photographer that our high school yearbook had. (It was really small logging town high school and I owned my own camera gear, which was orders of magnitude better than the equipment owned by the high school.) Consequently, she and I were at every home and away game that our school had. Additionally, she was part of the yearbook staff, and we were also in half a dozen other organizations together. She and I were great friends and she was always teasing me to take a sexy picture of her. (She'd strike a provocative pose and then stop before I got my camera set up. This was back in the days of all-manual SLRs. I finally got one good sexy picture of her by have my camera all pre-set and really the next time she did it. I had the photo before she knew what was happening. I converted the photo to digital format and still have it today.) As I said, we were great friends, but it never went beyond that.

So why tell you all of this? Well, it's because I've been fantasizing about fucking her almost every day since the two of us graduated and I just wanted to make sure that you knew what kind of girl I was dreaming of screwing.

 

The human mind is a sexual mind. It's also a creative and exploring mind. Fantasizing is a mental vehicle where people discover and possibly satisfy their sexual desires. Almost everyone has some kind of sexual fantasy from time to time. The fantasy an be enticing, disturbing, or even challenging in nature. The Mom scenario presented is a enticing and challenging fantasy because the thought entices a sexual desire to have sex with the friends mother but is a challenge as the fantasy will probably never become a reality. There are plenty of fantasies that do become realities though. I myself had a fantasy recently of having sex with an Asian woman. It became a reality just the other day. Fantasies about sex are normal for most people no matter how they identify themselves sexually or genetically, regardless of their their age, or even if they are in a solid relationship. Research has been done that shows even asexual or celibate people have fantasies about sex and sexual experiences. Non sexual fantasies also occur in the mind. The Wright brothers fantasized about flying. Thomas Edison fantasized about making light. Fantasies are the beginning of invention and can lead to a better world in which to live.

 

For us we enjoy just straight sex no anal. We met couples who were more hardcore swingers. We never minded light bondage, but that was as far as it went. If I could do things over, and go back in time. I would have tried a few kinky things. Not sure what, nothing sick.

 

After reading the posting comment, the thing that stood out was one sentence, "I use to feel bad about these thoughts but realized it's just a fantasy." What made you feel bad? People have thoughts every day all over the map. Did you ever want to kill someone? Just a thought. This may be a weird twist but it piqued my interest.

 

I think it's called catholicism

 

It made me feel guilty when I was in my teens. Just that it was my friend's mom I was thinking about. Don't feel guilty at all about it now.

 

In my teens when I started giving a guy blow jobs I felt guilty for about 5 minutes just because I knew no one would understand. But I was fine with it. Once again Catholic upbringing.

 

Most of my fantasies have always involve women wearing glasses. For me if a 6 puts on a pair of glasses it makes her an 8.
It wasn't until I was considerably older I realised I have a big thing for uber intelligent women and this glasses fetish stems from me, in my youth, equating glasses with intelligence. My lass and I have been together 30 yrs this year. She has always worn glasses.

 

I would only be concerned if fantasies involved hurting others.

 

Goes without saying this happens a lot more than people know of. My wife has had several affairs with work colleagues. Few before me and its happened with me. I work in heavy industry with predominantly men, so have never had them type of scenarios.

 

My early fantasies were of sex with my girlfriend or other attractive girls I knew. After we married, and my wife told me about having sex with her dates in college, my fantasy life became dominated by thoughts of her with other men, based on stores she told me.

 

My fantasies have always about girls masturbating and touching their erect clits probably because one of my first sexual encounters was with a girl that had never had an orgasm and we got naked and I talked with her about sex and told her to touch her clitoris and when she did it popped up hard and she rubbed it and had her first orgasm and we were young teens then but since I’ve watched two other females that had never had an orgasm touch their clitoris and reach their first orgasm both Filipinas

 

I typically have sex fantasies of past girlfriends from years ago. Most of the time I think about my GF Tina from college - we used to have great sex together and she was the most adventurous and fun. We also had sex quite a lot, and she was the first person that let me fuck her without a condom and also the first GF that I got to cum inside of. I miss a lot of the fun things we did together. Sex with my wife is good too, I just wish that she had a bit of Tina’s adventurous side.

 

I have fantasies about a couple of aunts, and a couple of nieces. I feel it's wrong, but not as wrong as them flaunting their bodies in front of me. One aunt and one niece they just did it a couple of times, with the other aunt and niece it was many times. The one aunt was the first woman I seen nude, and seen it all. Even when she grew old I still had the mental picture of her stepping out of the shower that day.

 

My fantasies are where I get my sexual enjoyment now. They take me back to an experience and are centred around reality in my past. The only porn that does it for me, takes me back to what I've done and are by amateurs, or seemingly so. I fantasize about sucking a cock and being sucked because I got into it when MF sex failed for me. Other instances are MF sexual encounters I had that were mind blowing, if all too rare.

 

I fantasize to this day about my first real fuck back when I was 17. I worked at a record shop on the ASU Campus (back in the mid 70's) and a new employee started a couple days after I did. She looked like Maureen McCormick (Marsha Brady from the Brady Bunch) and was 6 years older than me and divorced. She was hot blonde and I immediately started working our relationship. She had just moved to Tempe and wanted to know where to go at night for dancing and drinks. I mentioned Dooley's and that was off work at 5pm and asked if she wanted to go with me that evening after she got off work. She agreed and I picked her up around 8pm and we went out for drinks and dancing. She asked me mid-way through the evening if this was a date, and I said I would like it to be - and she said she would too.
When I took her home that night, she invited me into her apartment (which was a studio). I sat on her couch/bed and she went into the bathroom. She came out naked with ropes, pushed the pillows from her sofa on the floor and proceeded to take off my clothes, tie me up and give me my first blow-job! She edged me for what seemed to be hours and when I finally came, I exploded in her mouth.
We continued this relationship for about 3 months when she left me for another guy.
I still think back at that time and fantasize about it frequently!

 

I have a fantasy of being caught masturbating in her dancewear and spread eagled out and padlocked to a torture table wearing a leotard and tights and subjected to a serious electrical session via an old school variable 0 to 12 volt electric DC power supply in front of a group of Dominant women who take turns torturing me with electro-ejaculation to a large buttplug-electrode held in by a chastity belt with an electrode inside a condom which collects my cum. They force me to ejaculate until I cannot produce any more fluids. Then my nipples and penis are pierced with needles and the needles are used as electrodes. I receive a hard spanking to my inner thighs with ball busting as the women who smoke use me for an ashtray. Then I am forced to swallow my cum as a steel shaft is inserted into my penis and used as another electrode. I've accepted this separately before but really want to combine everything in a CNC session of No Limits and No Mercy.
I'm just a pain pig I guess. One of these days the stars align and it'll happen.

 

Fantasies are just that. Fantasies. If they were thought to come to be or if we used them as a goal we want to reach they'd be called "Plans" or "Careers"