Sexual Encounters With My Best Friend (Guys)

Me and my friend we'll call him chad often chill to drink or smoke together we have had a few encounters at a younger age and now years later we still can't stop meeting up to chill well work on the trucks smash some beers play some video games but every time we end up sucking each other off and 69 ing we never kiss hug cuddle touch just suck each other we cum and spit we only do this with each other even sometimes while we have girl friends I don't understand it neither does he we won't do it with anyone else but it's like we're addicted to each other

Has anyone else had this happen is this a common thought or want for other guys I'm 21

 

its ok dude it happens all the time (if your gay).

 

Why spit? Try swallowing.

 

Sounds like a good thing to me. You both enjoy it obviously. Who doesn’t like a good BJ and it’s from someone you know and trust. I wish I could find a friend like that.

 

Yup. I used to have a friend in the HS and in college with whom I was fooling around on a regular basis. It worked like a charm. He grew up being far more interested in girls, but kept our private arrangement going on for some six years. Then the geography interfered, and I moved on to live abroad.

We talked quite a bit about our special arrangement. We both saw this as a good thing. There was someone out there who was absolutely discrete and reliable. BFs and GFs came and went but our arrangement kept on working for us. No matter what, there was always someone out there to hang out with and have good sex, too. This took off a lot of pressure in life. Some sort of a mutual insurance policy if you will.

He had limited interest in men, and felt that all he wanted to get from m2m sex, he was getting from me anyway. Looking for more of the same or similar did not make much sense to him. He wanted to date, marry, have kids. Not my life plan but I was not going to be an obstacle in his pursuit of his own happiness.

Strange enough, neither he nor I saw this as a "gay" thing. What kept us going was the fact that we understood sex as a simple human need. Sure, we liked each other a lot. There was a great deal of mutual attraction. Our arrangement functioned as some short of a shortcut to good, fulfilling sex. I went on chasing and courting other dudes. He dated girls. Sometimes we got lucky on our individual fronts. Sometimes we did not. Neither he nor I got too stressed over such things. It was easy for both of us to draw a line, and stop an unpromising pursuit. If his latest GF tried to be too difficult, he'd give me a quick call, and the game was up. If I did not feel like hitting the cruisy spots, I'd give him a quick call...

In other words, count your blessings...

KD

 

I agree wish I had a friend like that aswell. I need a buddy who we can do normal shit together I.e. work on cars, play sports with you know normal guy shit but then we also had sumthing special that we share like bjs or maybe even a nice fuck. At this point, I don't think I can kiss or cuddle or nething like that but I wud luv to have a friend to take care of each other... be happy buddy, I wud pay for a friend like you have...

 

No need to understand why, and really no reason to care about wether it's common or not, you guys should just enjoy and keep doing it

 

Everyone wants a friend like this.

 

Yep, a great friendship, Just enjoy

 

You guys have something many envy, just roll with it and enjoy the times you spend together. I didn't start sucking cock until I was about 28 so I have no youth experiences but I've had several suck buddies over the past 25 years. We'd only ever get together to suck each other off when the wives weren't meeting our needs. Now in my second marriage with a wife who permits, watches, and participates life is so much better. We have a well endowed friend who loves getting blow jobs from the two of us together.