For the past couple years (25-27 now) I have had this insane sexual urge. Everything from fantasizing about women I see in public to watching porn 5, 6 sometimes 7 times a day. I constantly want to touch myself and I have this (almost) uncontrollable urge to become intimate with a lot of women I know. It's so overwhelming that when I finally do become intimate with a woman, I'm done in less than a minute (unless I've been drinking). Why am I so insanely into sex? I want to be able to think and feel like a normal person but I can't because every interaction with a female becomes sexualized in my brain. Is this something I should be seeing a therapist for? Is it a sexual dysfunction? Normal? I'd really like some advice.
Sounds like you need some hobbies or you have alooooooooooot of time on your hands ( hopefully it is the only thing on your hands right now lol) Cut out the porn, it is mindless and does you/anybody no good. Does it takes over your life? If yes, then maybe you should seek some assistance in the addiction issue. It is not uncommon but you should talk to someone though before it possibly begins to escalates into more violent sexual thoughts. Your drive may just be that of a 14 yr old in puberty too much testosterone, that can be alleviated medically. Good luck
Don't watch porn for a while, or at all if you are able to stop. Maybe other people can watch a little and not have a problem, but apparently not you. Try to wank less than you do now, but when you do, slow it down. This will help you last longer in bed. A meditation practice may be helpful to you.
Yeah violent sexual acts would not be something I end up doing, that's for sure. I would never hurt or control a woman. I grew up with all females in my home. Mother, sisters, a couple cousins. So I'm very respectful with women, just not in my brain lol. I just think about touching them and seeing them feel pleasure, etc, etc. Also is it really possibly to be getting those hormones so late? I mean, I'm 3 shy of 30! Anyway, thanks for the advice though, I'm probably going to go talk to a doctor about it.
