I thought that sex was overrated until I had it with the right person because then it was amazing... (I took your survey)
I much rather prefer cuddling. Orgasms aren't any great thing for me, fun and feel good but not a mindblowing experience. Not to mention that I can't climax through penetration nor does actual sex feel very good since I'm rather small, so whatever. My boyfriend is the best cuddler in the world, and melting into his arms cuddling is much more satisfying than having sex.
I agree, though, cuddling is mighty close, and necking too. Naked slowdancing is pretty decent too. I even get a lot out of going for a walk holding hands....and massage, showering, wrestling, tickling....all just rock. I still love sex enough to say that I'd be 100% sure that I am a nymphomaniac.
But when you have two people who are mirrors of each other, and who see sex the way freaky joe man does....well...... I was 39 before I got the greatest gift of good fortune imaginable, actually it is way past what I imagined..... beyond beyond The intensely passionate intimacy and infinite perfection of satisfaction.... imho.......few will ever know such luck, and I could not possible overrate it, or even adequately share the experience in words so that it was understood, it is one of those you had to be there things.
You really cant get a correct average of YES or NO. It all depends on what situation the person polling is in.
depends on if i'm getting any or not. right now, i'm a that hormonal phase that says "meh, i can live without it." by next week i'll shift, then i'll spend at least 3 weeks a slobbering, slathering horn dog begging for sexual attention.
I beleive it is overrated, sure its good,and can be really good, but i think the fact that it is so empahsized in media and among peoples individual converstaions show that life is fairly empty of meaning. its good, just doesn't need to be saturating entire socieities.
very true. it takes away the anticipation if you're being mind-fucked constantly. you get kinda jaded about the whole thing.
When I first began having sex, well, we were inexperienced and I was like 'what the heck was that, that didn't do a thing for me, the media over-hypes it'. But then after I had my first O, I was like 'WOW, they didn't warn me it would be THIS intense'. So I answered no.
just regular sex.... and by that i mean sex without love or feelings.... yes... then sex is overrated..... but sex with a woman you truely love..... nothin can beat that feeling
yeah I think its kinda over rated...I mean, its fun and all, but some people make it like the most important thing in a relationship and I dont think it should be that way. I also think that tv and music is way too obsessed with it these days...its good that they can be more open about it now than in the past but I think it goes a little over board.
im a virgin but ive had an orgasm from a guy going down on me- it was definately not overrated- just amazing
I agree, but once you realize that the build up, expectation, and foreplay are maybe the most exciting part, you can focus on them, stretch them out to the limit, and that is hard to overrate.
