If u go a while without sex do u have any negative symtoms? Headaches Frustration Irritable af! Slightly depressed
My Toys and fingers keep me pretty satisfied but sometimes I just need to be bent over the bed and fucked hard and no toy can do that! Sooooo, when I need a good fuck, I get restless and horny. I just attack him when he gets home and I tell him I need a good pounding! If I was single, I guess a dildo would have to do, but it wouldn't be the same.
Tell me about it... better yet, tell my wife about it! I'm so frustrated, which translates into irritability.
From personal experience I say: Masturbation is better than nothing. The good news is that if you get depressed your sex drive will be all gone, YEY!
To deprive your of sex is not good in my opinion. Sex is good for the mind and body. My wife and I talk about sex daily. We have open and honest discussions regarding sex. It is that important to us. We use masturbation together with regular sex. At 63 I still wake up in the night with very hard erections. Just yesterday, I told my wife I was horny and it was understood she was going to get a good pounding. She let's me know when she is horny as well. It's all about communications. We were once apart for 7 weeks and we both masturbated to keep the blood flowing to our genitals.
Hmmm...I actually like the feeling of having to wait for it. It makes the orgasm so much better when you ache for a little bit. I recently got married in May, and my husband knows I like this and he will play along lol and he teases all day long like sexting etc and makes me wait for it. But if I were in a relationship where the sex was bad or boring or it just never happened, I would not be in that relationship long. I never slept around but in a relationship, chemistry and sex are important to me.
Deidre, I agree with your post. Many times my wife and I start date night in the morning. We are retired and live a very private life style. I stay nude for days and my wife barely covers. We both know when each is horny. She calls my penis the hanging thing. I always know when she is horny. She stays wet and hard nipples. She knows when I'm horny because I have a little bit of precum. It real is about communication and chemistry that works for us.
I think that you both are communicating with body language and not so much words...which is a good thing
Have sex with whoever wants. Got in an inch once. Had to give her time. Now what doing none of your business.