Where does being gay come into play? If a guy wants to just try playing with another guy and possibly sex with another guy does that make him gay or bisexual? Never will have feelings for a male nor relationship just innocent sexual fun....is that gay? Has any other guys played with a male friend just for fun?
I'm not attracted to guys in any way whatsoever, but I think I would enjoy getting blown by a guy just for the experience. Given the right type of circumstances (and perhaps substances) I would probably try going down on one either. I would never try fucking or getting fucked by another guy though.
You care about labels why, exactly? Even if the responders to your question were in complete agreement (and they aren't), what difference does that make to you? You've already stated your desires, and they are what they are. I can't see how it matters what you (or I, or anybody else) calls it! It just is! FWIW, homosexual acts and homosexual identity are not the same thing! A person can be celibate and be homosexual or heterosexual. By the same logic, why couldn't he engage in this or that kind of sex act from time to time, and likewise be gay or straight, independent of the acts themselves? Of course he could! And, yes I've had and would have sex with guys, theoretically, though I'm in a committed hetero relationship now, and my wife's not comfortable sharing yet. She's turned on by the dea of a MMF 3-way, and considering it, but I don't care that much either way. She makes me happy! But it's surprising how many supposedly straight guys are turned on by cocks and cum, and how many have engaged in one or more homosexual acts at some time.
I like anal play but I'm not sure if I could let a guy touch me sexually. I can't even watch homosexual male porn. I do like watch women play with themselfs though. That usually what I watch when I play with my ass. If you want to try it make boundaries of where he can touch you. If you are worried if it make you gay then maybe you are and after you try it you might end up being more honest about your sexuality. Not many men will admit it but Im sure most men think how an actual penis would feel like in the ass. At least once in their life. I think about the feeling sometimes of a hard, worm penis ramming my butt hole while Im playing with myself. I don't care if someone calls me gay. I am most definitely bi-curious but I have never acted on my curiosity.
I don't find men attractive but every once in a while I get this urge to suck cock. And that's it. Just like the idea of sucking cock. Ideally, being with a shemale would be awesome. I'd be more game to suck cock then. Even so, a few years ago I did suck cock .... I was staying at a hotel and had been out drinking. I returned to the hotel, took the lift to my floor an exited. At the same time two guys came through the door from the stairs. They invited me to their room. I knew straight away what was up. It didn't take long for we were all out of our clothes and I was deepthroating one cock while the other was being rammed into my asshole. I don't know why but liked the feeling of the cock in my mouth better than the cock in my ass.
I've never done it and am not really attracted to men, but occasionally when horny and porning I get curious. I've gone as far as finding like minded guys to chat with online. Traded pics with one guy and got so worked up with him describing how he would blow me that I came all over my desk. I think it was sort of the taboo and the availability that had me doing this rather than a deep desire. I have fantasized a bit about having a cock in my hands, mouth and even my ass, but I don't think I'll ever actually do it. Well maybe a mutual JO if I'm really feeling it?
Yes. It's not a lie. I had been out drinking and my inhibitions were pretty low. I doubt I would have gone along with it otherwise.
From the male perspective: If you only like having sex with women, you're straight. If you only like having sex with men, you're gay. If you like having sex with both men and women, you're bisexual. It is not that fucking complicated.
this is what a confused persons post looks like on hipforums: ok first of all, i would like to state that im totally not gay at all what so ever. having said that, i would love to blow a guy. or get fucked up the ass. btw, did i mention im not gay?
wow, so that's your only time with another man or men? That's a crazy story, tell us more, did you like it, do you want it again? Did they lube your ass? Did you take loads at both ends?
If you can get sexually aroused by men or women, then you're bisexual. If you can only get aroused by men, then you're a homosexual. My experimentation with same-sex sexuality ended probably when I turned 13. You may or may not be in a phase of experimentation
I liked it. I enjoyed it. I certainly don't regret it. It started off we me alternating between sucking their cocks. After a while one of the guys grabs some lube and a comdom and moves behind me whilst I kept sucking the other guys cock. He lubed my asshole first using his fingers before inserting his cock into me. It didn't hurt, surprisingly. I guess he did a good job of lubing me. It felt good having him inside me and the feeling of his cock sliding in and out of my hole. He fucked me until he came. And I kept sucking the other guy until he came in my mouth. Didn't enjoy the feeling of cum in my mouth so much but there was something strangely satisfying about having a cock in my mouth. Neither of them stimulated me. Which was OK. I felt perfectly happy about being used and I got what I wanted most, and that was to suck cock. When we were done I just went back to my own room and jerked myself off. I have been with one other guy on a separate occasion but didn't enjoy it so much. Do I want it again? Well, occasionally I get the urge to suck cock again, like 2 or 3 times in the course of a year but never act on it and don't seek it out. When I get that feeling or urge then, I like the idea of sucking cock and playing with the balls. But the problem is that cocks are attached to men and I dont feel attracted to men. A shemale would be good to get with though. In my head it's cock attached to a female. I don't feel like I want to get fucked in the ass though, just suck on a hard cock.
interesting. Kinda crazy that you ended in a full three way getting plugged by men at both ends as your first experience. Guess you got a lot of experimenting out of the way! Did you feel like a woman? A slutty woman? Were you hard the whole time? Yep my feelings about sex with men are largely passing fancies to play with a cock and experience the taboo. I'll probably just leave it that way.
I'm neither gay or bi. I love the femal form and the memories of what I used to do with it. O lost use of my cock in a car accident. Ever later scar build up prevented me from cuming like aai did. After 16 years, I put my hand on a guys hard dick for the first time. I couldn'y believe how much I missed that feeling. I didn't want to let go. A while later, I did what I saud I'de never do, Leaned over and sort of kissed the head. From his reaction, I knew how good that felt, I continued. I couldn't believe how much I liked it. When he said he was gonna cum, I figured I'd learn what that's like too. I still have no intrest in a man, or boyfriend. I don't want to make love to a man. but I love sucking dick. I always thought it be great to meet a herphrodite. I wouldn't feel wierd doing a girls dick
I really despise labels. Especially when it comes to sex. The world is a judgemental place and it saddens me. I am a 25 year old female. I have always had fantasies about watching my man screw/be screwed with another man. we like what we like and we should never feel bad about it because it's not something we can control. If you think you want to suck a cock then please for the love of God give it a try. Doesn't mean you have to do it again if you don't like it, doesn't mean you have to be in loving relationships with men, especially if it's purely sexual.
So I started chatting with a guy online and we've gotten very sexual. He wants me to dominate him and he wants to worship my cock and give me his ass. He has sent me pics of himself in his wife's panties, bent over, with objects, etc. He has a smooth feminine looking ass. I've sent him some cock pics. We've chatted online and stroked about how he would suck me and let me fuck him etc. I'm not attracted to men on the street and and have never been with a man. I do have a kinky side and I've had an affair (with a woman). I've definitely gotten hard thinking about meeting him for pure sex, letting him suck me off, plowing his tight ass. It's so naughty and taboo. Would either of us actually do it? I don't know. How gay is this?
