Sex Whilst Sleeping

within the bounds of our relationship and not wanting to cause any hurt, i tried to get away with doing
because i didn't write, "I tried to get away with doing".

​I must have Miss read then :unsure:

 

You could try it the other way around

Try make her fall asleep while having sex

 

My boyfriend wakes me up with sex regularly. Although he never "paws around down there", he's not a bear. The point is that I wake up and know what's going on though. If you specifically told your wife that you stick hands inside her while she sleeps and she said that's fine, then heck, do whatever you want, but if that was never a conversation you had, then I still call it rape.

 

Lol I only used the phrase paw around because someone else did, it does sound rather unsexy. And yeah, if your wife has no idea you are doing this it is definitely rape.

 

Gess i don't know, I once told this next door neighbour how i got hard while i slept. She thought this was unusual and was i sure it wasn't just a "need to pee" hard on. Long story short, i woke before day light with her straddled over me. i thought i had locked the front door. I had full rock hard and she was going strong. Hands on my chest riding me to town, I just assumed she had got me hard outa fun and carried on.
Next morning i woke with a shaft and and her tinny hands wrapped around me. I closed my eyes and as a man would enjoyed it. She soon mounted me and was taking me ever so slowly I near couldn't bear it. Finally she stepped up the speed and owned me. Without a word she cleaned up and left. Had she known i was awake and feigned it?
That night, I had just finished my run (jogging) and she was waiting inside. I asked how she got in, she said she knew where i left the key.
After i showered i felt so horny I thought lets do this for real and approached her. she was shocked and fled.
Next morning i slept thru, i felt well rested and figured it was all in my mind.
As a construction worker, i worked harder towards summer Christmas and went to bed earlier.
I started to wake up with stinging balls.. lol sounds weird i know but they were wet.
so i decided to set traps. not harmful, just stuff that would have to be moved.
It didn't matter anyway... the next morning i woke with her going to town and rubbing her breast in my face..
at first i was frighten as she had inverted nipples.. they popped as she got turned on.. i kept my eyes close and let her finish... i watched as she dressed, looking at her self in the mirror. She was awesome looking but those nipples must of been why she was so afraid. Damn it was sort of freakish..
That arvo i told her what i saw. She had no way out. she put her head down and said nothing.
Gees i didn't mind. gotta love a woman wanting you. i figured now its in the open lets do it. As i was on the phone to ex she slipped around, raising one hand in silence to me. A hundred things went thru my mind. Is she getting turned on on her own terms? does she want me to be turned on while i'm talking to ex?
is she making up for? I didn't care. was the best phone call ever, i didn't want to hang up.
Few weeks later word had gotten around, women began to point and guys stop talking to me.
i figured it was time to move on. I found a new place over looking the water, when a knock on the door came.
A young man i had seen before at the old place filled my front door.
"your been fucking my wife, (so and so) saw her sneaking into your place every morning"!
she was married? well fuck me. i thought.
Quick on my feet i said "yes m8, she comes over after you leave for a coffee". i had no idea she was married.
I had figured if she had admitted to it he wouldn't of been accusing he would of stated.
Sure i could of taken him out but he was in the right. Morals dictate; i would accept the punch. I've slept with married women before and best results is let husbands punch you to certain point, beating him up wouldn't help them.
Funny thing about this time was i was been used. Years past and i saw her again. She had separated and met a new man.
I suggested we have coffee, she said "what would be the fun in that" she smiled and walked away.
every now and again our paths cross... i feel a slap on the arse turn and she is far away... i'm so used! lol

 

C/S,
Rev J

 

Still, I have heard this a lot from the gals over the years about the middle of the night sex thing.

I think it might be the best time for you guys, cos it would be when they are most relaxed, spent at least a couple hours unconscious, a couple of hours not stressing about ever little darn thing, a couple hours not listening to themselves talk

 

"within the bounds of our relationship"

I've read a lot of posts that pretty much say "I would have different bounds, therefore its wrong".

I've also read some posts that question whether sex during sleep is really inside the bounds.

Has the OP asked his wife (while she is awake) if this is OK? Or has he not gotten caught (yet) and she hasn't said "no"?

Within the bounds of my relationship with my wife (discussed while awake ), I do enjoy touching her as she sleeps and watching her wake up in the middle of an orgasm.
Going for a maximal finger count, doesn't interest me. (getting the thighs spread that far, while she is really asleep... perhaps the OP's wife is a better actress than he thinks.)

 

My wife loves when I wake her up and start plowing her after I come from work she gets off on it.

 

And she is no longer your wife; right?

 

Guess my lady is weird, because she actually likes to be aroused before I start sticking things in her vagina!

 

I don't mind being awakened for sex. The point though, is I want to be awake. The trick is to get me to realize you woke me for sex, before I become annoyed that you woke me. Affectionate, non-sexual touching, and kissing are about at my limits.

 

Yeah, not a good idea to be admitting rape on the Internet dude

 

If I was woke up for sex...and agreed, then fine. To have someone finger me while I am sleeping is creepy and would piss me off. Not to mention, sticking your fingers in a woman's vagina when she is not yet aroused does not feel good! I don't care of ya are married....boundaries...ya need some boundaries!

But...I cannot imagine not waking up with fingers inside me or someone biting my nipples...is your wife medically sedated or something?

 

I'm liking that comment Aeri!!

 

You would've loved sex with my first wife! (She would just lie under me and wait....sort of like fucking a sea cow....not that I've fucked any sea cows)