hello me and my gf are both virgins we have made out and and she gave head and I fingered her that’s all. When I go to penetrate her her anxiety goes into hyper mode and she can go any further :-( She said if I wanna have sex then I’m gonna have to do it while she sleeps I said ok. My question I’m small 4.7” when hard so when ever I lift up her legs to try and penetrate her she wakes up and pushes me off What other position could I do with me being small and possibly not waking her.
Chuck, I see issues with both of you. It's nice that you have been with this girl for a year. By the looks of your posts here and the other thread you started you two are living together. Not having sex with each other for all this time is unusual. You both have an issue that cannot be solved by asking for advice on this or any other forum. You both need to seek out professional counseling. Both of you need sex education. If you force her into having sex while she is asleep you can get into a lot of trouble. Beware of the consequences of what you are doing.