excuse me but u dont know me, iv gone through enough shit and grow up in an odd enough situation that i am VERY mature for my age...for exaample: a mature person would respect others choices even if they arnt their own, as well as not say anything mean and nasty...that is being mature. age does have a lot to do with matureity, but not many girls my age can say like i can that one of their best friends is a 45 yr old man who tells me all the time that the reason y wer such good friends is cus im smarter then any grown up he knows...and NO hes not a fucking perv...so dont go there...i understand how to live ok? and in this world its obvious that u gotta respect everyones views even if they arnt your own... but i respect that u think im unmature and need to "grow up" though its not true
*sigh* what a stupid argument this has been. I was married for 15 years to someone who is 21 years older than me. I ended the relationship for reasons that are neither here nor there. Suffice it to say that it was a tragedy waiting to happen. As to the original question at hand, I would say lube as well, but with a caveat. Don't just stay with the first one you buy. Your body may have sensitivities that you're not aware of. If one lube isn't easing the pain, you may be experiencing a basic allergic reaction. One lube I recently found and really like is pjur Eros Woman water formulation gel. It's not silicone based, the taste is not bad, and just a little bit goes a long way. And if you're using a gelly dildo, be careful of that as well. There are chemicals in the gel material that can cause irritation. Again, it's basically an allergic reaction. Talk to your pharmacist about which lubes etc are gentler on sensitive skin. They would be ones to give you some good information.
Aw man lol hahaha i didnt want to get yelled at just voicing my opinion, and i felt strongly about it....sorry. Man you people need to just relax and stop being so up tight about things so she likes a guy a lot older then her who gives a shit like Madison said to each there own and as the saying says "If you have nothing nice to say dont say anything at all." Simple as That. It is mean when people say things perpously to hurt other people and what you people said to this girl just wasnt nice. Yes i understand you have problems with it and thats cool but you DONT have to make her feel bad it's her life let her live it how she wants.... People up hold and believe different things and you shouldnt talk nasty to her just cuz she thinks differently then you EVERYONE is different its just the way life is no two people are EXACTLY alike....
I guess you have to understand the fact that...well...my frame of mind isn't exactly set to 2004. More like 1969. So, with that having been said, yes he is dreamy. :H
Born out of your time then. Too bad for oldies like me! I could seduce you with my record collection if you weren't such a legal risk. lol.
If I had a 15 year old daughter. Which at 22 its not possible. But if... I found out she was fucking around with a 24 year old, I would. Get him arrested Once he got out and had years of asspounding in prison, I would then alert everyone who has kids that hes a sexual predator Stick a bright/reflective/spotlighted sign in his front yard that reads, "im a scumbag sexual predator that likes to have sex with 15 year olds."
i'm sure if your 15 year old daughter and her boyfriend were in love, she'd really dig you if you did those things on the list. She probably wouldn't rebel at all. Talking to kids sorta sucks, doesn't it? Gotta hate perspective.
dealing with a pedofile isnt too hard. In the military its automatically 20 years in prison. (any rape article) If I was civilian though, I wouldn't do anything any different than anything I posted beforehand. I dont give a shit if my kid rebels, hell I expect it. Im just going to find creative ways to deal with it. Rebellion is healthy to an extent. But when your with a guy (you being a minor) who is 9 years older than you, thats going a little far. Love is great and all but it sounds like more of a facination/infatuation case to me. As for the guy, a 15 year old might be all he can get, so he is just manipulating you while he can, till you grow up and get smarter. Maturity doesnt mean shit, when your 24 and dating a 15 year old, there is something seriously wrong. Whether its justified by "love" or not. The reason why there is an age of consent in states is because of guys like that. So the government can have a reason to put them away.
ok... since i get so much intention here, i want to say a few words aswell yes, i am her boyfriend yes, i am 24 years old and everybody, who thinks that i just want to fuck a young teen, just think about it.. i spent all my money i got, nearly get broke, have to sell some of my stuff to pay my phonebills, though i started to have a 2nd job now etc etc just to fuck her ? START TO THINK !!! if it would be just because of that, i would save all my money, and find somebody here in my city.. wouldn't that be a lot easier and cheaper ? yes it would.. and for all those, who don't believe in love, or anything: STFU !!! you don't know her, you don't know me, you don't know our history.. 1 guy here on this forum knows us, and our history, and even though he comes from the most prude (spelling?) county of the world (USA), he still accepts it, and maybe he is even glad and happy for us. so: if i'm fine with it if she's fine with it if my parents are fine with it if her parents are fine with it if my friends are fine with it if her friends are fine with it don't you think you should accept it too ? and if you can't .. that's okay.. but it's still not your business ! Greetings Markus PS: whoever finds mistakes in spelling and grammar, (s)he may keep them
oh.. and just for the record.. i had some relationships before... like: i was 19 .. she was 24 i was 20 .. she was 19 i was 22 .. she was 20 so don't tell me, i can't get any at my age, thanks