Sex Hurts, Due To Being With The Wrong Man

To all the ladies-

I'm just curious as to how many of you experience painful sex when you're with the wrong man? It's as if your body is telling you, "Get this guy out of me." You have no medical problems. You have no problem inserting vibrators/toy inside of you. Yet there's this guy that feels painful, no matter what you do (foreplay, lube, etc).

 

Lol, the more difficult question is was your body ever going to respond to guys that are like little puppy dogs and do everything for you.

Was your body only going to ever repsond to hot guys that treat you like crap

 

Um, I'm kind of confused...but yes, the guy that loved me and cherished me was the one that could easily penetrate. If a guy had character flaws or just lacked foreplay skills. If you check out my old threads, I enjoy other sexual acts much more than penetration.

 

Does it hurt all the time with this one person? Could it just be the position?

 

This has never happened to me ever.

 

std..

go get the v-g a tune up..

 

And all that means is you never tried with a guy that gets you soaked before he even touches you or when he does touch you, your lady bits are like ( in a pirate accent) arrrrh ram it in me matey.

 

Just so I understand - do you mean your guy doesn't take the time to be a gentle and considerate lover?

 

I don't have an std. I already said in the original post that medical issues have been ruled out by a few doctors.

Second, I'm not with this wrong person anymore. The person turned out to be not very nice, which is why my body rejected him.

Third, the person was unable to do the type of foreplay that I requested. I told him what I needed, but his technique wasn't working?

Fourth , the person and I had personality clashes.

I only started the thread to meet other women like me.

If I'm with the right man that knows how to warm up, penetration is fine.

 

Accidental double post.

 

Edit.

 

At least you get it. You're smart.

 

That makes perfect sense to me. He really was the wrong guy. You weren't compatible. I hope things work out better for you now Amethyst.

 

Thanks, Orchardist. I feel bad for being a bit argumentative, but my sexual preferences have always been touchy for me. My favorite sexual act is giving a blowjob, along with a few other kinks. I have been called weird before for liking blowjobs so much. Penetration is most possible when someone can give me an orgasm first or stimulate my clitoris properly.

 

I don't think you can lock it.

But relax... I don't think anyone was trying to attack you in any way. And now that you clarified those things most likely (w time, if not right away) this thread may get some answers or opinions from females who have been through the same thing.

I am a female and I tried to answer you seriously...that, hmmm, thinking about it, it just never happened. The only time I ever had any pain at all was the first guy I was with ... because not only was he the first but he would want to go for literally HOURS and it was just too much for me at the time. It was good and horrible at once, lol. After that... Idk, just hasn't happened to ME... but I just don't experience pain like that. I'm def sure it can be psychological and I'm sure at some point someone may relate to what you were saying and have something you may want to hear. Try not to take other things people said the wrong way.

 

I think you stated your position well Amethyst - you weren't argumentative in my opinion.

What you are saying about enjoying giving blowjobs is really very normal for a lot of people - its that desire to please. I absolutely love giving oral - I'd rather do that than just about anything else so I really do get what you are saying.

Being stimulated how YOUR body needs is what is important. If your guy doesn't care enough or take the time to do that then things have to change. Its about your pleasure and happiness as much as his.

 

Hi AT,


I just moved to a new city, so forgive my misinterpretation. I edited a couple of my posts. Yeah, I was just seeing if there were any other women like me!

 

Are you a male or a female? Do you get wet when giving blowjobs?

 

Ha! No, I'm a male but I get incredibly aroused when giving oral to a lady. I can't think of a bigger turn on. I'm just saying it works for me just as for you - its giving that pleasure that gets me going.

 

Oops. My mouth is one of my most erogenous zones.