Can something be fun when there's a deep psychological element involved? People aren't "kidding around" when they're having sex. They are engaging in a meaningful conversation, and that's part of what the pleasure is derived from, but it's not straight up "fun". You wouldn't be fucking somebody and say, "Oh what fun we're having!" The person would immediately stop fucking you.
Well, I know after a good rope and bondage session my miss will always untie me, kiss me, and tell me... "Well that was fun.. Good. How was that?" So at least she's having fun.
it depends. if it was the right person, she could say "i just shit the bed" and i wouldn't necessarily stop fucking her.
Including people who say otherwise. You think you know more about my life than I do. That's an extremely annoying way to talk to other people. I try hard to avoid people like you in real life.
My humor is very dry, excuse me. I was not being serious when I said that I don't think anybody has any fun when they're having sex. Personally, for real, I think I am too out of touch with my own body to have any fun while I'm having sex. Maybe if I had more sex I would be more in touch with my body. But like some people can watch their dick slide in and out of a vagina and be like, "Oh yeah, that rocks." I can't get that fascinated with the act itself. I'm too much of a Care Bear to have fun having sex. Except I can imagine Funshine having fun sex. Sex without responsibility doesn't really interest me. I like having a responsibility towards my partner and my potential progeny. Even if the girl is just humoring me. I am like a dog.
Yeah, I often post stuff that I think is humerous and then someone always tells me to do research or something. it's like, a joke ya know? A funny. But, when you're discussing something bothers someone else then that's how it has to be, they gone be very direct and honest and I'm gone sit back, throw the head back in bouts of roaring laughter.
I couldn't agree more nature girl, My husband and I enjoy a special group of people that we indulge ourselves with. We enjoy a very satisfying Marriage, my husband is a saint when it comes to keeping our property and home in excellent condition. He works hard and enjoys my company whenever we are alone. However once the horny switch is flipped on anything goes. We have a great sex life together and when we share our bodies with others it's just sex. Nothing can ever replace the love we share for each other and realize that our sex partners are just that play things.
I certainly have no intention of entering a discussion with you if you are unable to be polite of at the very least friendly. You are [personal insult removed] & I will not be addressed the way you have in your opening line. Feel free to apologise if you want, I may then consider answering your question, until then, my good man, you can piss off.
I'm failing to understand how people don't get this concept, unless their first language isn't English, and even then, the two words sex and fun should convey the idea, even to a mountain farmer from Peru who has minimal contact with the rest of the world.
Masturbation is fun. Sex is serious, as there are feelings. It might not be your feelings or the other persons, it could be a third parties feelings. Also herpes doesn't sound like fun.
My daddy knew a guy once. Hungarian. Old, terrible angry bitter old man. Daddy said he'd only ever had sex once. When he was 20. And never again. I never actually believed it but fair enough I overheard this guy tell the tale. Apparently, it was too wet and he didn't like it. I never saw him with a female companion at all, looked like the guy that looked down on women, or is what the feeling was when I had to be near him. In a way, I'm glad he didn't have fun when he had sex. He's such a grumpy asshole it's the type of guy you can whole heartedly wish for a sexless life, and this was his own doing too. That's one man who couldn't have sex for fun.
I do it for fun and pleasure. They say that an orgasm everyday is actually good for you, because it promotes something in your brain that makes you healthy or something. I am not sure. But I read it some where a long time ago and since then I have had an orgasm every day if not more than once, but at least once a day and since then I have been happier and felt so much better about life.
I only ask these questions because I don't know what the hell you are all talking about (and by 'you' I mainly mean chics ) Thread title is Sex for fun, well what the he'll else do you it for? And expression of our physical love for each other?, you are talking about bumping uglies with your husband Expression of our physical love for each other...Or using each other's bits to help each other rub one out...one can use different words, it's still the same thing
What is so difficult about this concept that is hard to understand...? Sex for fun (i.e. no commitment) is a one night stand with a guy or a girl and then goodbye. No commitment, no connection, just a quick enjoyable fuck. That is it.
