Me and my girlfriend have had sex for about half a year. Sometimes it was disappointing due to my frenulum breve causing my PE. But sometimes it was great, with an hour of pleasure. About two weeks ago me and my girlfriend had sex. After first fast ejaculation my penis was semi erect but I entered her anyway hoping that it will come harder. After few minutes of thrusting she said to get off her. After removing she says now that had a very big pain somewhere inside. Two days after the intercourse I even made frenuloplasty to convince her that it was my fault and won't happen again. After that we met each other twice and she could not stand my touch even on her shoulder. She says that even touch hurts her and feels some kind of hate to me. She does not want to chat also and says that it's better to break up. She is frustrated and may be very scared because I am her first and last yet. Except that she has permanent back rib pain that make us to abstain from some positions and has dryness sometimes. This made me to think that she had psychological problems and tried to calm her down and explain that it was my fault and will be OK. But situation is getting worse. I really love her and this situation really hurts me very much. If anyone know what can be the problem and how can I solve this please help.
With my wish she went to sex therapist yesterday and she said that it was due to frequent dissatisfaction that she had because of my PE. She also said that it's good that we were not married and nothing can help except changing of partner. I am going crazy when I think of that. If anyone know about such problem, pleeeease help!
Not sure how to help you other then to say move on! She has already told you she wants to break up, doesn't want you near her, doesn't want to chat and is not satisfied. What more do you need to know that it isn't working for her? Get on with your life and let her get on with hers. Some things are not meant to be.
She's saying she isn't happy with you. That hurts, but let her go. You have to respect her freedom to go. I'm sorry you have to go through it.
