Sex at first meet

Discussion in 'True Love' started by Dreamin, Mar 20, 2014.

  1. Poplo.

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    Isn't love awesome!
     
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  2. leeds85

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    Life's too short. If two consenting adults want to go for it on first date why not. It's totally fine for those that prefer to wait, each to there own.
     
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  3. Poplo.

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    I met my wife when she was in high school and I had gotten out of the Army we had sex that very same night after 4 kids were still married!
     
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  4. I've found it doesn't make a whole lot of difference one way or another. I've had three wives, the first when we were young and dumb, but we fucked after we'd just met as soon as we could find a place secluded enough. My second wife who was a Christian red head and appeared as if she were a saint, played bells in the church holiday program and rarely sweared a word. We waited for three months after meeting before we fucked in her bed. She turned out to be not only a fucking nympho in bed who could suck a golf ball thru a garden hose, loved to fuck and the harder and rougher the better. But a materialistic bitch with a horrible temper. My third wife and I met while she was tending bar and served me free drinks all night. After closing the place after last call, she climbed in my car and we went to my place where within ten minutes after we walked in my door she was naked on her back with my cock buried in her well worn **** and I was shoving her nice ass down into my mattress. That marriage lasted longer than the first two, plus she had a daughter who was 20 when I met her mother who I got along with nicely, and would go to the beach with and lie on a blanket next to me in her bikini and let me rub sunscreen all over her. My cock was so hard after doing that I couldn't go in the water for half an hour without drawing attention.
     
  5. Poplo.

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    Good luck and let me know the outcome.
     
  6. soulcompromise

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    I couldn't be more opposed. ;)

    I feel like it can wait. And STDs... seriously, no one talks about it! OMG
     
  7. Poplo.

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    Just be careful who you see.............life goes on ..................
     
  8. Escierto

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    In our case we both got tested for STDs before we met. We both wanted it bareback and we didn’t want to take any chances.
     
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  9. Nova540

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    Does first meet after 20 years count?
     
  10. Barry Mandelay

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    My spouse and I knew each other a few years before dating. Then we dated a month before having sex the first time. Now when I meet a woman it is with the knowledge that we a will be having sex. For the last several years I have had sex the first time I meet up with a potential partner. But that's why we get together.
     
  11. Kimmiescock

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    That's probably the most common occurance there is between a man and a woman who are out and about. It may not be what's on the woman's mind when she's out somewhere by herself or with friends, but it's what every man is thinking about when he's sitting at the bar having his first drink, or sees a hot woman standing somewhere alone as in a line at the store or etc. A few drinks and pour on the charm then it's off to his place for an all night cap featuring his hard member as the host and her pussy as the guest of honor. Even women who aren't ones to normally do the meet and fuck thing will fall prey to this once in awhile and guys love it.
     
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    I don’t think there’s anything wrong with having sex right after you meet. It likely won’t turn into a lasting, loving relationship because it’s just based on sex, but that’s fine. He’s probably out hoping to meet an attractive woman and she might notice that he’s particularly well endowed and want to have a little fun with it. We can’t be judging women for wanting to just go out and enjoy sex.
     
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  13. Indybanker1946

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    My late wife and I first met on a blind date. We had a great time having dinner and a couple of drinks. I took her home and she invited me in. We literally fucked all night long (wish I could do that now). Months later she shared with me why she wanted sex our first night together. She said before she became emotionally attached to me she wanted to see if we were sexually compatible. Apparently we were compatible since we had an amazing 30 years of sex until she passed 20 years ago. She also confided that she had slept with several men on first dates for the same reason.
     
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    My condolences:-(
     
  15. jimandjan

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    The one girl that could have changed my life. I just graduated high school went to a party intended to party, girls were not on my mind. I had not been at the party 5 minutes when this girl caught my eyes. A second later our eyes meet. I walked toward her, and we started talking. It wasn't long before we were making love. We spent the night together. I took her home next morning which didn't go well with her parents. She had given me her phone number, and I called several times, to which her mom always said she couldn't come to the phone. I eventually gave up. We spent a wonderful night together and she might be the only woman I might have gave Jan up for. So, when I hear Sylvian's Mother I always think of that girl. I don't think I done bad with Jan.
     
  16. KDaddy23

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    They've always said, "No sex on the first date!" but the question I had was, "Um, so what if she wants to have sex? Do I tell her no?" I was understanding that girls - then women - wanted to wait until the third or even later date to make sure that a guy just wasn't interested in having sex with her. I almost blew a chance to have sex with a girl I'd been trying to talk into going to the movies with me for months and she finally said yes. Went to the movies, enjoyed each other's company and I walked her home, she invited me in and made it a point to tell me that her family wouldn't be home for another hour or so and... did I want to have sex?

    "Stupid Me" almost asked, "Isn't having sex on the first date a bad thing?" but I never got to ask it since once we were in her room, she started taking her clothes off and... the next hour was a blur of the release of sexual tension. It was the only time we dated/had sex but it taught me to be ready to have sex just in case the girl/woman wasn't one of those "not on the first date" girls/women.

    My current wife, when we first met on eHarmony, had said that if we have sex, she was going to put the pussy on me so good that it would put me to sleep and I just laughed. Maybe a week or so later, we had our first date. We'd gone to the boardwalk, had a really nice dinner and even better conversation and as I was driving her back home she said, "I don't want to go home yet."

    Hmm. I asked her where would she like to go and she really didn't answer me so, okay, it's gonna be like that, huh? I drove us to a local motel and with the real intent of being in a more comfortable environment to continue our conversation but once we got into the room, she started undressing and... I put her to sleep. I was ready for sex even though she had said that she was sure that if we had a first date, there wouldn't be any sex.

    I've had a lot of first date sex with both men and women because "no sex on the first date" doesn't make sense when one or both people want to have sex.
     
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  17. Jenna1995

    Jenna1995 Promiscuous and Daring!

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    I always have sex at the first meet!
     
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  18. jimandjan

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    meet or meat?
     
  19. Jenna1995

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    Well the post asked the question that way so it’s probably even less formal than a first date? But yes, I think…my intention would be to meet the meat :p
     
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  20. 6Sailor9

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    Ha! Ha! ;-)
     
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