Sex As A Coping Strategy

So I'm thinking since it's something I've been enjoying, I could put it to use.

I could use sex as a coping strategy for people's irritating, cruel, and infuriating words and deeds.

It's euphoric, it's a pain killer, it's a relaxant, and it brings people together.

What do you think?

 

Is this a new plot to another one of your pornhub fantasies?

 

The problem with that is that sex often leads to irritating, cruel, and infuriating words and deeds.

 

You're thinking of fucking people who irritate you?


If not, humans already use sex for relieving stress and stuff.

 

http://www.collective-evolution.com/2015/10/30/why-having-sex-can-be-important-even-during-difficult-times/

https://www.wired.com/2014/04/sexual-healing-bonobos-use-sex-to-de-stress/

 

I think it's good that you're thinking about coping strategies! The problem might be that sex takes two people. Seldom are our minds in the same place as another person's. What I mean is, you might find that sex is a little frustrating sometimes. It might lead to unwanted consequences too: pregnancy and disease among them. I find that exercise is an excellent coping mechanism. Try it out. You may find that there's nothing quite like it.

 

I'm too lazy to exercise and I'm a smoker. Thanks though!

 

Good god woman, just put yourself in therapy already.

Mmmmkay thanks.

 

I'm not gonna use sex as therapy. I'll just distract myself from the voices and only put myself in environments that honor me. Thanks everyone who was nice to me.

 

Yes, very much so!

I am Ishtarian and we see sex and prayer to be the same thing. We believe it brings us together and honors our goddess. Lesbian sex is seen as the highest form of worship as we see ourselves as part of Ishtar and by giving each other orgasms we give them to her. It is deeply spiritual and satisfying.

That being said I have sex with about six people regularly and am the happiest I've ever been in my life. Just don't let others use you as you won't respect yourself. Also ALWAYS kep in mind female domination as it keeps you in control of your body and your enjoyment.

 

i have been 11 years on this forum...i have read a lot...seen a lot of people come and go here..
i am a dude who can take some critical remarks about myself...they never hit me in my old hippie soul...
i ignore the kind of people who critisize others but cannot stand 1 word of critical remarks about themselves;..
for me it does not matter much how you approach a topic..words can go deep and certainly be misunderstood by a lot of forum members..
we all are different in our minds,body and soul..however if someone posts something you don't agree with...ignore it...
neglecting is often the best tactic...provoking is not...it leads to trolling and frustations...
this is a hippie forum and i have witnessed behaviour which should not be on a hippie forum as such...
i know...I'm only a silly old hippie Belgian... but..I know about life..I've been around a bit,you know...
the power of the WORD..should be a positive thing and not a battle of words where someone wins..or loses... :bigcry:
regarding this topic...i got my own ideas about it..SEX can be therapy,just like music,drugs etc..it's a personal thing....
how come there are so many topics,questions on the sex and love forum...are you all bloody doubting WHO you are?
or do you live only for sheer bodily orgasmic pleasures??there is also a mind,a mental side to all of us...it's all between your 2 ears..investigate

i say to you all...smoke a peace pipe...and be careful with your words sometimes...you might un intentionally hurt others...

greetings,and I LOVE you all
Tiger

 

Right right.

Maybe we should just hug, and post about sex and music, and dozens of pictures of ourselves, and just avoid unpleasant topics.
Do you think you're constructive? I think you think you're this cool, old hippy person sharing all this wisdom and positivity, but yeah....you're really not.

OP has demonstrated before (so, so many times before) that she has issues, and I didn't find any comments in this thread very offensive or uncalled for.
So wtf are you talking about here?

 

you're cool,piaf...when someone says A on this forum...you always reply B...
almost 22900 postings...I show you respect and bow my head..
you're O..K..I'm not,i know...well...mea culpa..mea culpa...mea maxima culpa...

 

You must understand though what it all looks like to the girls.

We never see photos of you with women your own age.

Never ending party guy, yeah it's cool in a way.

But yeah, in other ways its really not.

You love us all? No you don't. They know in real life you wouldn't even talk to anything female over 30

 

wrong posting...in my facebook there are women enough in their 50 or 60's..
your judgment is totally misplaced..but you know a shit...
you're just posting and in a fix with yourself?
provoking??i am not a pervert...far from that,my friend...
you tell me about love..I'm all ears...

 

No, not really. But look who's talking lol. Hello pot, meet kettle.
At least my B's are sometimes related to A's. I sometimes stay on topic.


You know, idgaf...but don't go around moralizing...hippie forum this, hippie forum that, words hurt so let's just post happy, happy things and love each other.
It doesn't work that way. Actually, maybe it does for you, but it doesn't for the rest of us.

I' m just saying....pot - kettle. You can say anything about my posts (or post count for that matter), but I post about a number of topics. Can you say the same for yourself?

 

That's why I provoked, to measure how quickly and easily you got defensive

 

i'm not defensive at all..but i HATE false words based on nothing...
you're 44?oh?nice one..I know you from chat room...no hard feelings,mate...

 

While sex can be a great diversion and lets be frank it feels good, it will not solve the underlying issues that you are dealing with. I hope you can find a way to learn to manage those better for you.

 

The underlying issues she is dealing with?

The second line of her opening post is basically eople are shit

What is there to solve? Would seem in that case, all there is, is ways to cope