Sex and religious beliefs. A way of thinking.

Let me know if this simple explanation of how I view my existence in this mortal human life resonates with anyone.

You (the human) are in a love relationship with your partner (the SELF aka Universe, God, Jesus, whatever). You can stay at home (as many Gurus do) and have a mental intercourse all day long (meditation). OR you can go about your human life, activity after activity, with your Eternal lover continuously on your mind directing your activities.



Everything you endeavor is based on your relationship with the SELF. You meet another human and begin a sexual relationship with them and that is great BUT you never give your heart to that human, your heart and mind belong to the SELF. You and your human partner help each other through this mortal life but your only true love has never left your mind and you will live happily ever after here and in eternity with and as the SELF.



This is how I live my life. I am married to a woman. Yet she and I have same sex fantasies. We’re both ok with that. We help each other thru this life and discuss our propensities and fulfill them within the parameters that we set.



I had a discussion here with someone about how to handle a childhood molestation. I was molested for 4 years. It didn’t bother me because all my life I saw my human as just a puppet or slave of the mind or straw dog or whatever, knowing full well that whatever happens to the body is meaningless and short lived and not to be taken so seriously that it affects your present contentment.

 

I’m NOT judging or knocking you. You asked how your idea resonated with others.

To me, sex has to do with the expression of both love and intimacy with a partner, in my case, my wife. It sounds like your making it into some kind of existentialism thing. I guess I’m not that deep.

 

It's different to each of us. But to me sax has got absolutely nothing to do with love. I've been in those types of relationships and it causes nothing but pain and jealousy. To me sex is an appetite just like hunger for food and both can be satisfied in the same way. If hungary you can eat a little bit by your seld just to satisfy the hunger. That's all the body needs. With sex you can masturbate alone and you are satisfied. OR, you can eat/sex with another or with a group as litle or as much as you like. But when you add the element of your heart the one other person the pain begins. My wife and I both feel the same. Together 20 years. Best relationship I ever had.

 

If sex was combined with individual love for eachother, my wife and I could never discuss our most intimate fantasies or point out sexy asses on the beach to each other or tell each other how I loved all my threesoms or how she had four guys do her on many occasions. Our love is deep for eachother, the deepest I've ever experienced. And this way of living makes it even better. She often tells me, are you sure you didn't save a video of you with other people because that would turn her on. I have saved about 6 pictures of my past wives and lovers. She likes to masturbate to them thinking that I was with them.