sex and "I love you"s

OMG people, why do you anylise everything sooooo fucking much!?

If you love her, and if you feel that you can say that to her in a certan moment just say it! It's not about America, or society or anything it's about you two and your relationship. Don't calculate, just go with the flow, do what your heart tells you, be spontanious!

 

I think so too, but this is america, they cant obviously just feel it and do it, its like its dangerous to do so or soemthing. We dont understand that shit, but i think its soemthign to do with their society and cuklture and religious pressure and family system. Its all screwed up, around marriage and all that shit.
We cant understand, its like they are from another planet. From what i have witnessed until now.
Its like saying i love you is completely baned, a no no no, a dont go there thing.
Not like us, you feel it you say it, you dont feel it, you dont say it.
I have droped to even try to understand it, it makes no sense.

 

i concur... excellent advice from a 17 year old.

 

any advice that you agree with is excellent... to you :tongue:

 

thats some advice all you fools need. theres no reason for this thread to be 10 pages long.

 

everybody is entitled to an opinion, and everybody seems to have one...
i think duck wanted different opinions anyway.

btw, this thread is now 11 pages long. :tongue:

 

haha
as previously stated, I just wanted to find out, how I really felt on the issue really

a lot of times, that's what getting advice seems to be
finding an opinion you can agree with

and don't pay any attention to mr. raspberries, he can be quite a douche at times

 

i know. i'm just funnin.

 

LOL @ duck dick... advice is advice take it or leave it.

 

When I love a girl I make sure she knows it... I let her know with words, actions, touches, smiles, little details, etc.

That's one of the things I don't keep to myself

 

and I left it
which was quite obvious
you are just too much of a wuss to not have the last word

 

Ok, FUCK YOU!
I'm sick of your stupid, ironic, childih, ignorant, self-centared, discriminating, smart-ass coments!

You're no better than me or anyone here in this forum.
And you're 19, i'll be 18 in a month, wow what a big diference!
And if you're so smart and mature: ACT YOUR OWN AGE!

 

once a gain a moronic post.what the fuck does being a merican have to do with saying i love you or not.you speak as if you know every single fuckin american and it sickens me to see your illiterate bullshit posts everyday that mean absolutely nothing.and what the fuck have you exactly witnessed for you to say that it's all screwed up and that it has to do with our culture and blah fuckin blah.you write as if your jealous of us americans, what exactly do you have anyway?5 languages under your belt, to which i am sure you haven't mastered nearly as good as you think you have, the ability to write such outlandish, whiny, meaningless, endless posts as you have???you are just like everyone else in this forum, i'm sure you shit, fuck and breathe the same way it just probably takes YOU a hell of alot longer.get over yourself lorna your starting to look foolish again.

 

6 months and you haven't said it yet?????? dude that's a long time. just say it

 

unfortunately, many would think that

 

what the fuck is wrong with you little girl? im 19 your 17 theres no big fuckin difference, im agreeing with your shit not being sarcastic or "Childih", so why the fuck are you getting hostile...

 

I see this shit all the time lately
people get it in their head 'oh, that person is an asshole' and get super sensitive around them
people are so silly

 

i gues i'm "super sensitive" as Duck says because everytime i make a coment , you coment my coment and you relate it with my age, and i don't like that

 

Ok, hopefully this will be pertinent to this thread.

If you feel uncomfortable sayin the "L" word then don't. I have witnessed many times people saying it and not meaning it. Obviously you DO love her,and that is a wonderful thing.Actions do speak louder than words.
Alot of of women DO need to hear the words as a lot of them have posted here.

However, I have also seen women turn tail and run as soon as those words are spoken.(personal experience here) Some of them just freak out on it. It ruined 2 good relationships of mine saying it too soon.
You know your girlfriend better than anyone else ,so you probably know how she will react.

Do whatever feels natural to you.You will know when the right time comes to say it Duck. Don't say it til you feel like it is the right time,ya never know, it could be the most magical moment of your lives.

Keep showing her you love her,because THAT is the most important thing.
That you DO love her. She has to feel it or she would not stick around.

There's my cuppla cents on the matter, rip away folks...

 

This is the first comment that I see on the thread that is actually related to the original topic in a couple of pages.