Sex Addicts

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by Hiswife13, Aug 16, 2013.

  1. Hiswife13

    Hiswife13 Guest

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    Real sex addict here. Just wondering if there are any other sex addicts out there or if you even believe in sex addiction. What are some of the most dramatic measures you have taken to fulfill your insatiable appetite? Are you unable to g a single second without craving sex? Maybe it's not the sex I'm addicted to but the orgasm? Are they one and the same? Would just like to hear what someone else has to say on the matter.
     
  2. Paulwenz

    Paulwenz Banned

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    LSD demonstrated, even to skeptics, that the mansions of heaven and gardens of paradise lie within each and all of us."
    - Terence McKenna


    Sex is no different.
     
  3. AmericanTerrorist

    AmericanTerrorist Bliss

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    No, I do not believe in sex addiction. I believe people use that as an excuse for poor moral judgement.
     
  4. desert-rat

    desert-rat Senior Member

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    Some people do become addicted to different forms of sex . The different kinds of phy. sex . Porn , mags. , internet , chat rooms , ect. Addictions are from repressed stuff , early child hood , past lives , ect.
     
  5. Manservant Hecubus

    Manservant Hecubus Master of Funk and Evil

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    Nope. DSM says it ain't. It's usually a symptom of something else.
     
  6. AmericanTerrorist

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    Well, I don't take back my non-belief. And this is from someone who LIKES sex a lot. There is nothing wrong with liking sex and lots of it... but most people use "sex addict" as an excuse for cheating or whatever else they do that they feel is "wrong"...
    I will say that I am someone that typically looks at an addiction from a physical standpoint. You can become physically addicted to alcohol or heroin, not sex.
     
  7. AmericanTerrorist

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    Yep, bipolar disorder, borderline personality disorder, etc.
     
  8. desert-rat

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  9. Manservant Hecubus

    Manservant Hecubus Master of Funk and Evil

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    Past lives...

    Wake me up when there's a rational argument to debate against.
     
  10. AmericanTerrorist

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    lol.
    right. not much more to say than that. ^^
     
  11. desert-rat

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    Proving past lives , or the value of letting go of repressed stuff would be beyond the context of this post , all I was doing was to state my beliefs .
     
  12. Hiswife13

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    I'm addicted to sex, not sex with other people. I've been faithful to my lover and always will be. Though sometimes the thought has crossed my mind to find a second lover to help fulfill my appetite. You'd be lying if you said you haven't ever thought of sleeping with someone else while in a committed relationship. There are just some things he won't do that I want him to that I have to figure out how to do myself.
     
  13. kairilove

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    :leaving:
     
  14. TheSamantha

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    How do you know you're addicted to sex?
     
  15. AmericanTerrorist

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    I wasn't referring to you personally when I said typically ppl use the excuse of "I'm a sex addict" to excuse bad behavior (cheating or other things that they feel are wrong but do anyways... saying you're a sex addict let's people off the hook for their behavior--- however, when I say that I am not referring to you... I don't even know you so don't take it personally.)
    As for what you described for yourself, I just would not call that a sex ADDICTION. I would just say that you have a high sex drive and like it a lot. That does not make a true addiction though.
     
  16. Deuceman66

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    I would have to agree with you there AT. My love and affection for sex is with my current relationship and how she makes me think about it in such a positive way
     
  17. nz male

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    I often ( when my wife is away out for a few hours at a time ) enjoy my addiction of either anal play or doing things tom my penis that would gross some guys / girls out.
    I get to see a lot of attractive woman daily & try & imagine what some would look like with their clothes off. So that makes me a sex addict ?
     
  18. AmericanTerrorist

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    Oh my goodness... I seriously think NZ MALE and HISWIFE are twins.... or soul mates... one or the other.

    Or...the same person.
    Man, I don't know. But this is uncanny.
     
  19. Vanilla Gorilla

    Vanilla Gorilla Go Ape

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    I'm told I'm cynical, but I'm not really going to believe anyone thats tries make our 'cheating' is the biggest of evils.

    Its mostly chics that do it, and some will make it out like its worse than murder, but thats them whatever.

    The guys that talk like that all do seem to have one thing in common though, they do all tend to be pretty big douchebags, the overprotective, try too hard to act tough and hide I got a little weenie agro types
     
  20. nz male

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    I never realised there was someone on here called HISWIFE ?
     

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