Do you feel that you are addicted to sex based on your feelings, urges and activity. If so do you have any other addictions like smoking, booze, drugs, food, social media, etc.? If you dropped one did you pick up another just to make it easier?
I'm not addicted to sex .For me it's just the icing on the cake in the relationship with my beautiful wife.
No, I watched a documentary some time ago on people who are sex addicts... good lord. Sex addicts may masturbate 20 times a day or more. They go on hook up sites and have sex with anything that walks, even in dangerous situations. I remember one woman who was having sex with a different man almost every single day. Plus masturbating everyday. No... I am not even close to that. Nor want to be
In the past I used to jack off most days, even if having sex but now not very often....so I don't fit that part of your addiction stats, but I love and enjoy sex and the last few years since I went onto PrEP I have probably met an average of 4-5 different guys a week...bottoming for most of them. I love it and us guys are less emotionally involved than women...... Addicted....idk, maybe.. .but I'm still picky in that I'm not into older, overweight or hairy guys, so I don't just go with anyone with a cock and a pulse . And the proper definition of an addiction is when you have a physical need that affects your health if you can't get the fix. Isn't it....? So as far as I'm concerned it's a hobby I enjoy and get pleasure from, and also meet some interesting guys from all walks of life .....grindr and other sites are not socially compartmentalised...haha.....so can meet and have fun with a variety of folk. You sound very disapproving when you talk of "they" ......just normal people who enjoy sex to a greater degree than you? We all have different libidos and hell mutual sex between consenting folk, what's wrong with that? Another of my other hobbies is chess. ....pm me if you are interested....... Simon
Is that all that different in the single gay male world though? Most gay guys will say that sex is a given on any date. And getting sex is as easy as walking in a door. Obviously I don't know if that is true, just what I have been told. I mean, if women had the same sex drive as dudes... people would be fucking each other everywhere
hehe, they probably would except for the impregnation aspect. I think Women do have similar levels of sex drive at times in their lives but they have far more emotional baggage. Not as easy as "walking in a door" but yeah generally not too hard to hook up, depends how fussy you are. Trying to arrange a group meet can be so difficult as guys are so picky as to who they will meet. Simon
Something that has baffled me for years and it still goes on despite things being more even between the 2 main genders. . If a woman likes sex she is often referred too in derogatory terms . If a guy likes sex he is a super star /stud . I just think there needs to be more levelling up IMO.
I have a LOT of hobbies. Some are associated with sex. But I don't think I have a sex addiction. Just a strong, strong desire all the time and I find ways to take care of that. I find ways to enjoy other hobbies too but I'd drop them in a minute for a good session...even just masturbating...or looking at a pic sent to me or some porn. My newer FWB sent me a boob pic as she got into her shower earlier this week and it completely derailed my morning. I love being derailed like that!
