So I am learning that I enjoy giving foreplay in the form of sensory play. I feel like usually the woman is the receiver of this but as a woman I love the feel of the control. We started with light bondage and ice. Tonight will be the first time trying the wax from the low temp candles. I have thought about including the earbuds with music so he can’t hear anything but not sure of songs to use. What are some sensory play techniques you have tried and gotten the best results with?
The blind fold is a go to. This helps with any anxiety on my end because he can’t see me but I see all his reactions. Have used feathers before but wasn’t sure if a guy would find it to feminine. And whip cream is usually my go to food adding a sweet yet controlled taste.
Love the ice play. We used to do it over both mine and her nipples. Ice inserted in my anus cools the prostate which feels good. In her pussy always helped tighten and help with wetness. On her clit simply drove her wild. Using music was also a enhancement. Get a copy of or find on Youtube, Ravels Bolero. This orchestra piece reeks with sexual innuendo and pace. Start it right at the onset of intercourse and fuck along with the tempo and volume. It's not much for bondage but having enough discipline to last to the end is difficult.
