Self sucking with girlfriends - and getting back into it when older.

I learned to suck my own penis at the age of about 14 I think. That would have been in 1970. At that time I was just discovering my new larger cock and learning about self pleasure. I was very slim then, and quite naturally flexible, so one day I wondered if I might be able to get it into my mouth, or at least give it a lick.

I was able to get very close, and this encouraged me to keep at it. Took a few weeks probably before I made contact.

That first lick was bliss, as I tasted my lovely clear nectar. Of course now I wanted more, and kept at it.

Eventually after about a year I was able to take about half of it into my mouth and properly suck myself off.

Initially I wasnt interested in swallowing, but it didnt take long before I started to love my semen as well. Those of you who can, know the exquisite feeling of ejaculating into ones own mouth, the pulsing and gush. The warmth and taste and sheer exhilaration of having done something so rude and taboo.

Of course there was no internet then, and as I was shy I wasnt up for bragging about this to anyone, so it remained a sort of dirty secret. And indeed I did feel dirty and weird. I thought I was a bit of a freak TBH. But I also thought that I had a sort of pagan and primative superpower so I didnt stop!

I mentioned it once to a couple of friends when drunk, but thats as far as it went.

I didnt get into sex with girls really till I was 20, yes I was that shy. But once I did there was no stopping me and had a series of lovely girlfriends and great sex. A couple of these were really rude and up for anything. One morning I woke up next to Anna and told her that I had just had a dream that she could lick her own clit. She sighed and said - Oh I wish I could. That would have been the time to tell her that I could suck my own cock. But I didnt - I still thought I was weird. Then I had one who loved to see me touch myself and masturbate. She would have gone nuts if I showed her my skill. But I didnt.

At around age 30 I was married and one day, I dont know how the subject came up, but it was a warm summer day and she started talking about if it was possible for a guy to do that. So I said, well yeah actually - I used to be able to. Wow - really - how close can you get now do you think. So I tried, and to my surprise and hers, I was still able to. In the C position I could just get the head into my mouth and in plow I could get about a third in, certainly past the head. She loved this and we had some good sessions.

But we split up, and my second wife a few years later broached the subject. Now with bit more self confidence I told her that I used to be able to and probably still could. So I showed her, but she thought it was weird and that was the end of that.

We divorced after 20 years or so, and about 5 years ago I started seeing a wonderful woman who has become the love of my life. We have had some of the best sex of my life and are totally honest and upfront with each other about likes and needs etc. One day we were talking about how we both were thinner when young. I said that I was like a 28” waist and really bendy, which had many benefits.

Like what - she asked? Well I said - like good for climbing, which I used to do, and great for unusual sexual positions on my own.

Oh, like what in particular?

Well like I used to be able to go down on myself. (waited for wierd reaction)

Oh really? Now thats some serious talent there. What was it like having your own cock in your mouth?

So I talked about it a little and that was that - for a bit. But the conversation has come up a few times since. Once she was licking my frenulum and I said how I used to love doing that to myself. She said - you are a lucky and unusual man!

She is very matter of fact about it. For her there is no taboo, its just - well you love fellatio, so why wouldnt you do it to yourself if you could? Not weird, not gay, just fun.

We both do yoga occasionly, and recently I have able to do more at home due to lockdown, and were talking about progress. She said - are you aiming to be able to suck your cock again?

Wow - just being asked that turned me on. Well, I would totally love to actually, but I fear that ship may have sailed.

She said that the woman who invented Scaravelli Yoga was in her fifties when she started, and became amazing. In fact maybe that was what she had in mind! So there is hope for you yet I think.

Every so often when I mention my yoga at home she asks, hows it going? Able to get your cock in your mouth yet? No - I say - some way off.

Well she says - now this second lockdown is going on, you have a chance to keep practicing. And as you used to be able to do it, even years ago, I reckon you still have a chance of success.

Last night as I was on top of her she asked again - hows the practice - are you improving? How close are you do you think? Well - I know cos I measured it - about 7 inches away from tongue contact.

Cool well done she says! You should probably try later in the day, and take a hot bath or shower - that will loosen you up.

Yeah - says I, maybe when I am feeling a bit limber and in the mood I can show you how close I can get. Yes, she says - I’d like that.

So I asked her how close she thought she could get to her **** with her tongue. She admitted she had never even tried or considered it and thought it would be minimal pleasure from lots of effort but would be happy to show me. So we talked about possible positions, and yoga poses that would help.

I think this is just amazing. Here we are in our sixties talking about the most amazing solo erotic acts there are. And she is encouraging me! I dont think she is turned on by the thought per se, but just really into me enjoying myself. But maybe she is, which is why she brings up the subject so often. I dont want to keep talking about it really in case she starts to get the impression that I am more interested in my own body than hers.

So fellas - is there anyone else here that would like to share their experiences with significant others, and I would really like to hear from men who have started self sucking again later in life.

 

I did it maybe 4 times in my younger years and despite the amount of work it took to be able to even reach only the head I loved that I did it
I don’t know if I could do it again, I never tried after due to back problems, but I would definitely suck myself if I could.

 

Makes me want to work on flexibility and try

 

I used to be able to do it when I was younger. I could get at least a couple inches in my mouth. Like you, I am in my mid sixties now, but would love to do it again. The last time I did try I could only get within 3 or 4" of licking it. I keep meaning to get stretching at least 2 or 3 times a week, but never seem to do it. I am going to have to start making a point of it.
I'd love to be able to show my wife that I can do it.

 

Good on ya Fireballs. When is the last time you tried? 3-4 inches away is really good. With care you could make up that distance. Thing to remember is that at our age our bodies are just not as pliable and naturally flexible as they once were. It is genuinely possible to do yourself some damage if not careful.
For the last couple of months I have been doing some yoga stretches every day for about 20 minutes. Sometimes twice a day. But although I am more limber than I was last year for instance, I still think that what I am doing is firefighting rather than real progress towards my goal.
But thats okay - and we should all be doing work to stop us getting old and creaky. It helps with all kinds of everyday activity.
Having said that I have heard of older men who can still do it with ease.
Anyone young reading this post who can suck themselves already - then do not take it for granted that you can get your cock into your mouth without much preparation and stretching, cos it wont last unless you work at it. I recommend yoga and basic back stretches every day. Stay flexy!

 

I learnt to suck my own cock at 17. At the time I was a virgin and was afraid of a girl seeing me hard as I curved up like a banana. I genuinely didn't know if I was normal or not. Before Google porn was available. Well I kept trying and eventually could get about an inch or two in. I always felt a bit disgusted as soon as I cum in my mouth and would spit it out.
Then at 18 I had a gf and all my worries eventually went away but I was her first too. It still played on my mind that I was small (even though on hard i weren't) and curved. Second gf at 25 then realised I was blessed being curved.
Both my ex gfs and current wife don't like that I can do it and won't let me show them. I've shown couple of women in past who asked.