Seek and Admire

Do you take whisky and a hand gun with your Plath?

 

If she don't she should. Better just take a handgun to Plath & drink the whiskey afterwards

 

She makes me want to, thats fo sho

 

mel...
what did I do to make you hate me?

 

Tolkien then?

Hey, Tom Bombadil! Whither are you going?’
said fair Goldberry. ‘Bubbles you are blowing,
frightening the finny fish and the brown water-rat,
startling the dabchicks, and drowning your feather-hat!’

‘You bring it back again, there’s a pretty maiden!’
said Tom Bombadil. ‘I do not care for wading.
Go down! Sleep again where the pools are shady
far below willow-roots, little water-lady!’

Back to her mother’s house in the deepest hollow
swam young Goldberry. But Tom, he would not follow;
on knotted willow-roots he sat in sunny weather,
drying his yellow boots and his draggled feather.

 

^i do a great reading of that one

 

The more I think about this question, I realize that it is much easier to pinpoint things that I don't like than things that I do look for.

If I am on Tinder and you have any of the following photos--shirtless. holding a fish. posing with your car. hunting. gold chain. Insta left swipe. Boom.

 

If they dress like this

To the left to the left

 

If you dress like that then you are too rich and fancy to like me anyway.

 

goddammit, now i have to change my profile pic.

 

Yeah, you should have seen how hard I swiped left on this dude:

 

You're going to regret it.

Nothing worse than those "what ifs"

 

Nothing ventured - nothing gained.

 

You will NEVER know unless you try. And if you get rejected you have to look at it as her loss, not yours.

 

You should post a picture, but only because its nice to put a face to a name
Everyone is generally pretty kind and encouraging in the picture thread
My advice as far as dating and doing dating sites/apps is just to be genuine. Women can smell insincerity from a mile away

Also what eloise said, it is unwise to assume this girl thinks you're beneath her. Give her the benefit of the doubt and give it a shot

 

I have said these things to people face to face. Just ask, and you shall recieve. If you want an honest answer, ask for one.

 

I'm loyal to a fault, however I can be quite introverted and cynical, which are aspects that I think are often hurdles in the courtship ritual for me.

I'm pretty open at this point in regards to a potential partner's disposition but ideally I think I'd like to find someone who is loyal but more extroverted and optimistic.

 

^^ Yep.

Thinking of what we don't like can be interesting too. Which for me has to do with their general attitude towards life, and the way they treat others. Like i don't think i can be around someone who gossips behind people's back, or seems to be always a victim. Its usually the subtle things i tend to pick up on. Last time i saw all the red flags, ignored it, and went along anyway. I can't afford to do that anymore. It cost me. Literally.

I also don't think i can develop a serious relationship with someone who is constantly talking about politics or spends most of their waking hours doing something they don't want to do with their life. Seize your life.

 

have you actually told someone in real life "i'm not interested because you're holding a fish"?

 

You have nothing to get an impression from. If she is like you, she'd be feeling the same way.

Please talk to her! I can't stand the not-knowing anymore

 

I tend to put the fairer sex on a pedal stool, admire them from a distance, and walk away.