Seeing or being seen?

For me it’s seeing her but especially in front of others. When at a place where we can be natural my favorite part is her unveiling.

 

My wife will be nude and approach men who are clothed fishing. And I love watching them interact

 

Seeing my wife. We dated almost 8 years from age 15 to 22, and I never saw her totally nude until our wedding night. I never get tired of seeing her, even in our old age.

 

seeing her naked or teasing other people.watching other touching her.

 

Being seen completely naked and masturbating or giving oral or receiving anal. Not looking to shock anyone who doesn’t want to see just want to be seen by those who are into it

 

I want to watch and be seen!!!

 

Both, I like to see my partner naked and I also like it when my partner sees me naked.

 

As the male I love seeing. Never liked being nude in public, but did a few times on dares. Always figured male was more apt to be considered a pervert. Where as most men law included, loved seeing nude women.

 

Seems there are two themes ongoing in this thread. When it comes to sex, I get more enjoyment seeing my partner nude. When it comes to nudity as a way of life, I enjoy just being that way and don't care if I'm seen or not. Well, I do care if I'm seen and reported for being nude. It is then that I have to answer to the local LEO as to why. The complainers always couple nudity with sex which isn't the case at all. I can be nude 24/7 all day, all year. I'm happy that way whether you see me or not.

 

Is 'secret exhibitionist' an oxymoron? lol

 

The first time my wife got naked in front of friends was an incredible turn on for me . I followed suit soon after and before you know it we all were ! very hot .

 

I saw my partners many times and many of my partners saw me during sex and it always turned me on.

 

The “Unveiling”! That’s a great term for it, and it's one of my favorite parts of the nude beach experience. I enjoy watching women disrobe ( how can you not!) and especially enjoy my wife disrobing in front of other people,especially guys. I’m definitely a candaulist! However, the sheer relaxation and sensual enjoyment of feeling the sun and the breeze and water flowing over my skin is very liberating and relaxing….

 

For me, it is seeing my wife naked. It is still such a turn-on even after being together for 47 years. I especially enjoy going to nude beaches and watching her undress in front of all the people there. I have to be already naked and laying on my stomach, though.

 

I wholeheartedly agree with you. I am thrilled when I happen to be at the right place, right time. My lovely has been an avid sunbather most of her adult life. At first, it was a completely private activity, then as time went on, she got away from the fear factor of being 'seen' by someone to a more relaxed attitude of - have a look, but don't stare. She is also big on going to the beach. What she didn't enjoy about most beaches was the crowds. So, I suggested we try 'Blacks Beach', near LaJolla Calif. I let her know that a section of that beach was well known as a 'nudie beach'. Being hesitant was only natural but once we finished the hike down, she saw a number of beachgoers sunning nude or some even walking up and down the beach front. Didn't take her long at all to shed her top and shorts, lay her towel out and join the group (so to speak). From that point on, she looked forward to finding nude beaches as she actually felt more comfortable in that environment. Me? I was thrilled with this enlightenment. Her sunbathing nude wasn't a new thing, but doing so in a public arena certainly was. Of course, I, being somewhat of a voyeur, thoroughly enjoyed watching her do her thing for Vitamin 'D' and, as one might surmise, having her glide into the environment of openness with her nudity created a whole new dimension of lust for me. Thus, do I enjoy (exceedingly so) knowing that others (strangers/friends/other) are gazing (maybe even lusting) at my nude wife (either in a voyeur mode or in direct company) and I can sit back and fantasize as to what they are thinking (or doing). So, I guess this puts me in the candualist category. I know that there will be some who find this state of mind to be troublesome, and I expect that, but I also know that I am not alone in this endeavor. If it is perceived to be a problem, well, I can't think of a better problem to have.

 

When we are visiting lifestyle friends, my wife is usually the first to get naked. She is a very confident and empowering woman. Full of smiles and laughter. Nudity for us is natural. I would be lying if I said my wife doesn’t turn me on.”She does”. I have no problem with other men admiring her nakedness. They usually ask if they can touch and feel her. She loves to give them extended hugs and press herself into them. Some of her lady friends like it too! And you better believe she is looking at the men’s packages too! It’s just adult fun and we think nothing inappropriate about it. No jealousy at all.

 

My wife, over the years, went from full coverup when she thought someone was going to see her nude as she sunbathed to casual acknowledgement of any given encounter. This includes sunbathing in the backyard, the front yard, by the pool or at the beach. Obviously it didn't take her long to realize that if you are going to be outdoors and be clothes free, then chances are you will eventually have someone walk up on you. Did she change from being a relative modest person, to one that maybe enjoys the attention? An exhibitionist? Well, not quite that, but being seen nude by others, especially males, is something she has become very comfortable with. Her first time on a nude beach (Blacks Beach, LaJolla, Calif) she was a bit hesitant but when she saw the beach was loaded with naked bodies, she joined in without a word. As she became more accustomed to the nude beaches, her natural tendency to talk to others, strangers or not, took over. I was rather astonished that she'd be sitting there on a towel at a popular beach spot and carry on a conversation with any one (male, female or both) like they've been buddies for years. Quite the transformation given the time of modesty to enjoying the environment and the other people nearby. Didn't take long for her to seek out nude beaches as opposed to textile beaches. Less crowded and more approachable beachgoers. She found her comfort zone. More, later, with different examples of my wife interfacing with others.

 

Reading about the unveiling brings back some pleasant memories. We had our days at San Onofre nude beach in our younger years. It was definitely a turn on watching other men looking at my wife repeatedly. Sometimes obviously placing themselves directly in line to look up between her legs. Sometimes I don't think she was aware of these guys placing themselves in these strategic locations but I certainly was.

I can remember watching her go from sitting in a beach chair where her beautiful big boobs had been on display to changing positions to lay on her belly. During her transition she would first stand up which always turned heads to shaking the sand off her towel and completely bending over to place the towel where she wanted it. What a shot for the guys sitting nearby. I remember wanting to watch thier reaction but couldn't take my eyes off her while she transitioned onto her towel.

I miss those days. When I bring up our past trips to that beach she tells me now that she never liked going down there and she did it just for me.

I don't know what to think about that. She never directly told me she wouldn't go and she appeared to enjoy herself while we were there.

Part of me feels bad for not recognizing her feelings, but my selfish part I guess sure has some beautiful memories.

We no longer go to the nude beach but we still hang out in the backyard pool naked. Luckily for me being an avid photographer and always bringing a camara along I got some beautiful shots of her in her younger days at the beach. I still look at them often.

 

I wonder whether she's saying she'll do it if you want but she's making clear (giving a context), she's not really into it.

 

It could be.

She would sometime give a somber look when I told her I'd like for us to go, but she always participated.
Later on she would say no and I would go by myself.

We made friends with a group of nudist that were from out of state and even went to stay at there resort once and she was okay with that.

We've been married over 30 years and I still don't understand some of her behaviors. But enough about that.

Our favorite nude beach was hidden cove at Lake Tahoe. The turquoise water is cold but so clear and clean. On one particular trip t watched her talking to a group of naked men while I was fishing from the other side of the cove. I think I got a second rod watching her being the center of attention.