Have you ever been seduced? Looking forward to someone plying their powers of seduction against you? The first time I got seduced, ah, man, I got done righteously by an older guy and I don't even remember how many times he made me cum. But after that? Guys would try to seduce me and... it didn't work. The moment they started to kick their game at me, I knew what they were trying to do, and it became a game for me; would I let them "seduce" me or will I let them know that I know what they're trying to do and shoot them down? Some seduction attempts had nothing to do with romance; no, they'd come from guys who were hard-up to have sex or guys who were so full of themselves that they felt that any guy they asked to give it up to them would instantly comply and I would often find myself saying to them, "Damn - you can't ask me any better than that?" With the gay men who tried to romantically seduce me, I had to tell that that, no, being your boyfriend might be nice but I'm really not interested and I'm sure that by turning them down, I wasn't helping the bi guy reputation with gay men but I had also learned not to let anyone seduce me into something I didn't want to do. But what about you guys? Been seduced? Looking to be seduced?
KDaddy23: An excellent topic to bring up here; was I seduced at any point in yours truly's 66 years? Well----I'll just say that it would be a totally foreign concept to yours truly----in other words ZILCH!!!------and-----as far as this writer goes-----I lack what it takes to try to "seduce" a traffic light! A good-looking guy like yourself----well-----I can easily see why a gay or bi guy would try to seduce you IF another guy tried to seduce the guy typing these words-I'd say: "I think you need glasses pal-------OR at least better taste! Oh well-----------------
Don't sell yourself short; there are a lot of men who aren't going to care what you look like as long as they think they can seduce you. So, growing up and deep-diving into sex, you quickly learned that you had to sweet-talk your way into a girl's panties and if you weren't a good sweet-talker, you weren't getting in them... but it never occurred to me that a guy would try to sweet-talk his way into my underwear... until he did and, like I said, he did me righteously with multiple releases of cum by both of us and when he was pumping cum into me, I felt so... deliciously girly but later felt "stupid" because he seduced the shit out of me and when I wasn't trying to have sex with anyone that day. No one's been able to seduce me since that day and not for a lack of trying. Being seduced that day taught me that while I might be on the prowl looking to seduce my way into someone's underwear, there were those out there trying to do the same thing and he/she who has the best seduction game gets the goodies. It's been pretty hilarious listening to guys trying to seduce me and most times, I'd "allow" myself to be seduced because the guy kicking his game was sincere and genuine and the guys I'd reject were just trying to tell me anything they thought I'd want to hear and, nope, not falling for that one again.
Both happened. When I was younger, I was seduced several times, now I try to seduce others to a greater extent.
Seduction is a subtle form of power that men enjoy... the art of the pursuit. Interesting. For me, I enjoy being seduced. I like to be pursued. I wish I'd understood this years ago, but somewhere along the line I seemed to live by other rules, that it was my role to do the seducing, and to make the move on the person I was interested in. I wasted a lot of time coming up short. It was literally a chore to pursue certain women I was interested in. I did it, but it did not thrill me like I think it does some guys. It took me a long time to realize that rules are not always so clear, and can be bent or broken. I had moderate success with women. Heck, I married one. I've been on the receiving end of being pursued by women, however, and did not like it. So, I pushed myself to pursue a girl or a woman that I liked, and wanted to date, and it was fine... but I thoroughly enjoyed being pursued by men. I've come to realize that it turns me on when a man, in particular, decides to make his move on me. I like the dance that occurs between him and me. I get to decide if I want him to get his way or not. I enjoy that subtle form of power that he is attempting to use over me. It doesn't make me weak, any more than it makes a woman weak when she is pursued by a man.
When I was a teenager, I allowed myself to be seduced several times. I was seduced for the last time when I was 26-27 years old. Everyone was happy.
I would love to be seduced. Always figured it would be during a massage but it hasn't happened. I think I would be very eager and attentive. Older mwm in Wash DC
Being a somewhat submissive bottom, I think I would be flattered and happy to be seduced by a man. As long as he is sane and respectful.
I actually enjoy being seduced. I have done it with a few women. I have been seduced by a couple women. And one guy. It ws an interesting experience being seduced by a guy. There was an added thrill that here was another guy that was interested enough to chase me. We had a lot of fun, but it turned out he was just a bit narcissistic and self absorbed for my tastes. Eventually, I got tired of everything being on his terms and suggested he find another playmate. That was several years ago and he still reaches out from time to time. The seduction was still fun, even if the outcome wasn't so much.
