Secret Sex Life

Do you know someone who or have you had or have a secret sex life? A life of sex that no one but the partner you are having sex with knows about?

 

yes Gf and first wife and not the same things

 

In my early 20s i became a bit of a slut, i'd always been the shy quiet average looking skinny guy, then i realized i was above average below the belt which gave me the ego boost i needed, i had my first casual fuck buddy at 21 who apparently bragged a lot to her friends, those said friends got real friendly and over the span of a year i was fucking several of them and it was always the same story, they wanted to keep fucking but it had to stay discrete cause they didn't want the first fuck buddy finding out.

That kind of became my thing, i didn't necessarily have the classic good looks but i learned how to talk to women and kind of perfected my approach and i usually had 3-5 FWB/FB at any given time, i had a very casual sex life but most people that know me had no clue.

 

I keep a few secrets from my wife, and I think she might keep a few from me.

 

I have a SIL who had a decades long affair with her step father. It only ended with his passing. Even today no one knows but her and me.

 

my first wife kept quite a few that i would love to know about, but when she passed away, i never did find out

 

No so secret, I met with masseuses and a couple of escorts

 

My sex life at this point is completely secret. After menopause my wife is no longer interested in sex at all. She has said she doesn’t want to know how I satisfy my sexual needs. But she has no idea it has been with men. None of my family or friends know either except for one whom I have been sexual with.

 

For twenty years, I met up with and got ass-fucked by other men (I prefer married bisexual men, because I love it bareback and getting his cum poured out inside me) -- one-night stands and several that fucked me on many occassions (and one handsome black young hard-body who fucked me regularly for several years!); my wife has never & does not now even suspect ...

 

You can surely fuck this married man any time you want -- all you want, as many times as you want it!
(I'm alone in bed every night, and I love getting cyber-fucked when I can't get the real ram-rod...)

 

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My wife did that in college with her lovers. Everybody thought she was being true to me while I was away at another university, when she was actually having regular sex with other men.

 

My in-laws were swingers in their younger days. They had a neighborhood group they swapped with. Didn't know this was going on until my MIL;s passing. FIL outlived her but that's not who we found out about it from. One of the neighbor kids came to the funeral and during conversation mentioned seeing my MIL leaving her parents bedroom on more than one occasion.

 

My wife hasn't passed away, but our sex life kind of has. Never have sex talk or any thing spicy. just due to old age. I miss those days.

 

The loss of mental sexuality is worse than physical loss.

 

That would be hard to keep a secret, for so many years. I know several people who had sex with in-laws and they got caught or someone told.

 

When talking about sex with relatives. I have had several female relatives no blood, tease me several times. I never took advantage of the chance. gives me something to fantasize about.

 

I know a lady from Ohio who has a secret life. To her family & friends she is seen as a good church going farm girl. What they don't know is she is working as an escort (hooker) at night a few towns away. She trolls truck stops and bars sucking and fucking for cash. How she managed to keep it a secret for years I have no idea.

 

I think everyone has a secret sex life, either physically, emotionally, or just in their heads. And my three main long-term relationships, they all had secrets that I only knew about. With a long term live-in girlfriend years ago, she was quite promiscuous before I met her. We moved in together, and she settled down. No one would’ve thought where it was going. We had a very active sex life, which was one reason I fell in love with her. She had a bye friend at work….. I divorced single mom. And we hung out in frequently, but always had a fun time. And one day girlfriend comes home from work and says that if we were interested in a threesome, her coworker was up for it. Hell yes! Unfortunately, it never happened. But it didn’t stop her from having more frequent girls nights out with this coworker. She’d get home later and later. It became quite obvious that she was having an affair with her. Come to find out later she had had by curiosities for quite some time, but had never acted on it. I think a FMF or FFM would have been very hot. Girlfriend was the quite jealous type, so I’d probably just be doing a lot of watching. Their affair went on for a couple months and I would ask her about it, but she denied it. And we eventually broke up, and my girlfriend moved in with her friend. I’d see her later, and her transformation into a lesbian, quite obvious. It broke my heart, and was a huge kick in the balls, ego wise.
No one knew that my now ex wife had a six month long affair. I knew because it was my idea for her to be a hot wife. And no one except for me and our friend knows anything about our several.MFMs. I don’t think anyone even suspects it. But you wouldn’t suspect a divorced mother of two and churchgoer to be involved in such debauchery. She really enjoyed each of our threesomes, but then put a stop to them when she refound religion. And no one has a clue about her one nighter with a bi female acquaintance of hers. I knew she was somewhat curious, but never thought that she would go through with it.