Secret Fantasy Haven't Told Anyone

So I am a mostly straight guy, but I often think about dick. I get really turned in thinking about sucking another guy's dick. It's more than that though, I like the thought of the guy being rough and forcing his dick into my mouth. It's something I've never done, and I wouldn't do unless I knew the guy was safe, clean, etc. But I needed to get that out, to "tell" someone.

 

Me too!

 

LOL!!!

 

I don't think you're alone on this one.

 

I think of my dick everyday.

 

Do you have a female partner? Do you think she would be keen in getting one of those strap-ons and putting it in your mouth? Just a suggestion :beatnik:

 

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Not the same thing. Its like telling him to suck his own fingers and use your imagination

 

Maybe, but if being with another man is not an option for him, imagination can be a good replacement.

 

Well its safer but he might build up more fantasies versus just going through with it then finding out faster if he likes it or not

 

Yeah, also I kinda gather from the original post that what he's into is the idea of someone forcing themselves into him, so it might not be so much a penis thing and more of a control thing.

 

Seems like a lot of macho alphas here are into being dominanted by another man

 

Sounds like you're bi, dude. Go try it.

 

This annoys me. Just because a guy is turned on by the thought doesn't mean he's bi. I'm not sure why when a straight guy says he has a fantasy about something like this or even if he does it once he's immediately labeled bi or secretly gay. I always say, I've done drugs a handful of times in the past, does that make me a drug addict? I drink, generally once a week, am I an alcoholic? Been to Vegas a few times and buy lotto tickets from time to time, am I a gambling addict? Of course not.

If the guy does it and decides this is something he wants all the time, ya. But just because he's curious about this experience doesn't mean he's bi/gay.

Sorry for the rant, it's just that way of thinking is so antiquated

 

Trying dick isn't gambling or drugs. Honestly I'm kind of offended by your examples there. And what's wrong with being bisexual? Why the anger?

Besides, I just said it sounds like you are. Sexuality is a spectrum. You don't have to be 50% gay and 50% straight. You can prefer women but also like men. But if you like both, I mean that's just what you are. Unless you're only curious and you try it and don't like it.

But in my experience, being a lesbian myself and knowing lots of gay people, it always starts with a fantasy. Usually if you even have those thoughts, you have the inclination to try it. I think more people are bisexual than they like to admit.

 

My present wife (5 years now) was told up front of my cravings to suck cock from time to time. She thinks it's sexy and it totally turns her on to suck a guy off with me. We have a regular friend who we suck off together, yeah I suppose I'm bisexual...so what...I love having sex with women and always have and I also enjoy sucking a guys cock too. Sucking a cock with my wife is the greatest sexual moment. I had to secretly suck cock behind my first wife's back for decades...she was a great fuck, but would have never accepted that I enjoyed suck cock.

 

You should try it I’m sure you’ll be glad you did.

 

Being turned on by the thought/act of sexual activity with someone of the same sex... that’s petty much the exact definition of being gay or bi. So yeah, I agree with the previous post... if a guy is turned on by sucking dick, he’s somewhere in the gay/bi “spectrum,” for lack of a better term, but he ain’t straight.

 

I will break the guy with guy conversation with mine here. It’s being able to go to any woman and enjoy her breasts. It can be only that or leading to more.

Massage a woman followed by sex while her guy is there. I almost got that on three occasions but lives got in the way.

 

I recently started have a new fantasy. First let me tell you that my wife and I have gotten into pegging and I have on occasion licked her clean after sex. My new fantasy is to meet a group of hermaphrodites, with one cute yet nerdy one. The fantasy is that while in a 69 with the cute nerdy one her fellow hermaphrodites bang her pussy and fill it with cream that she makes me clean out.

 

Having a three way with a middle age good looking couple and as his wife is riding my cock to have her hubby come dangle his meat in my face.