Scared To Do A Threesome

Hi, Saturday afternoon, James on a call out, how did you get from pillow talk to talking about whether you both should continue, with us it was the time it took for both of us to tell each other, it was more or less confirmed that we had thought hard about the proposal from our friends, it still took a couple of nights, it was funny really, I suppose I liked what Peter( name of the other man her name is Shirl) did whgen we danced, tracing the out line of my bra, for example, and his hands going up under my top at the back, things that James doesn't do so much these days.
do you still see the other one in your threesome, I mean just as friend, and what if any thoughts going through your mind, love Susan xx

 

It was basically the same progression for us. It was occasional pillow talk for a long time, several years, before my hubby asked about actually doing it. Even then we talked about how to as pillow talk for a year-ish

I can see how it would have been nice to have that time before, specially dancing. We had dinner before but of course there was no touching during that. That must have been exciting

Our third lives in Florida so I don't see him much, mostly just on Facebook. I mostly wonder what he's thinking, though everyone acts the same way. Occasionally I'll think "he saw me naked" or "I had sex with him" or "he came in my mouth".

 

We always talk about it but jealous always might be down the road. Told her i would do it if that was her fantasy but it might lead to her doing it with him with out me since they used to be fwb. I consided bringing in one of my friends but she rather have her pick and would not like the opposite with me getting another girl

 

Yeah it's definitely the kind of thing you need to be in agreement on

 

Hi, just going for a soak in the bath, James and I are going out for the evening, don't know if any other women are like me, but I have missed being undressed by someone prior to sex, James doe undress me occasionally but most times we get undressed ourselves, I know I'm the same, I didn't do what I used to do to spice up our sex lives, but since Peter and Shirl we are sort of back on track of courtship,
so he came in your mouth hey, I have progressed to oral with our sex friends now but it took a lot of persuading from James to convince me, that he was alright with me doing it,

 

Totally agree. There's something very sensual about undressing each other. Same here though, because of the circumstances it doesn't happen as much as I'd like. I miss it!

Yeah he came in my mouth. That was also very sensual

 

good morning, we had a very pleasant evening, danced a lot, I love dancing, don't know whether other women are like me, but if when doing a slow dance with someone different, and I feel something stirring down there I dance much closer, happened last night, not bad looker
after I started to take other men in my mouth I didn't realise the difference in taste, first time with another I think I jerked back, took me by surprise, was it the same for you,
does other people see what we are writing, if so would like to hear what they think

 

Nice ;-).

Getting a reaction makes me dance closer too, maybe brush up against them accidentally

Other guys taste different, even same guy different times but I've known that so it doesn't surprise me

Lol yes other people can see this

 

I've outgrown the 3som, one other girl not interested. I like couples.

 

so how often do you dance and socialise, oh I've known that James taste differently but not that much,, Peters tasted very very salty, and I don't do much salt, I see another has written on here, didn't fully understand that statement, outgrown threesomes but likes couples, is that another couple swapping with another couple,

 

A threesome is probably what every guy dreams about, but if you really think about it this consist of eventually sleeping with someone of the same sex. Some people are more opened minded than others so I can clearly say that threesomes are not for every one. Now, I never had one myself and I don't think I ever will just because sex is supposed to be intimate between you and whoever it is you are with whether female or male. I don't think that threesomes have the ability to change your sexual orientation," sexual orientation is the dimension of personality that describes the balance of our sexual attraction to the two sexes" (447). So if people that choose to have threesomes mean that they are attracted to both sexes? Even if people wanted to have threesomes that don't mean they will switch sides. a survey showed that, "...at least 85% to 90% of men and women say that they are attracted sexually only to persons of the other sex, and another several percent say that they are attracted "mostly" to the other sex"(448). So, with that being said, I don't think people should be scared of having threesomes just because you do not loose anything by doing so and you do not turn gay or lesbian, which sometimes, is what most people fear. They fear the fact that they might like it more then they thought they would.
Of course, sexual experimentation is open to all some people like it more than other and some people are willing to experiment further than just a threesome. The sex world is infinite, I guess it just depends on how far you are willing to go.